Miley Cyrus is telling you all you ever wanted to know about her perspective on relationships!
In her signature candid style, the singer continues the discussion on her own sexuality and how she feels about society’s rigid views regarding gender and relationships with Time magazine.
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For now, Miley has taken to calling herself “gender fluid,” though she still finds the phrase not entirely accurate in representing her:
“I’m just equal. I’m just even. It has nothing to do with any parts of me or how I dress or how I look. It’s literally just how I feel.”
The former Disney star recalls how fellow teens in Nashville who were also “sexually curious” came to her first:
“They all wanted to experiment. I was always the one.”
She also relates how when being with men she felt there was an “overly macho energy” and how it affected her:
“That made me feel like I had to be a femme-bot, which I’m not. And then when I was with a girl, I felt like, ‘Oh s–t, she’s going to need someone to protect her, so I’m going to need to have this macho energy.’ And that didn’t feel right either.”
Further along in the Time interview, the 22-year-old gets blunt about sex and how it doesn’t always build a connection between two people:
“F–ing is easy. You can find someone to f–k in five seconds. We want to find someone we can talk to. And be ourselves with. That’s fairly slim pickings.”
Indeed! We’re sure many will agree with her there.
Miley’s most recent Valentine’s Day experience reinforced the idea that relationships are often imbalanced:
“All the women in the restaurant were with these older, fat men that had just let themselves go. They were just being drunk bastards. And then the women were sitting there, trying so hard just to look good. And they’re ignoring them the whole time. And I thought, ‘I’m not living like this … If I end up in a straight relationship, that’s fine—but I’m not going to be with f—ing slob guys who are watching porn, making all their girls feel ugly.”
As for the future, she hopes people find themselves more willing to be true to who they really are:
“I hope more kids don’t do what I did and sit in their room and cry, thinking ‘I just don’t know what I’m supposed to be.’ But when I tell kids sometimes, ‘Just be yourself,’ I feel like, ‘I hope you can do that. Can you really do that?’ … Maybe if you’re finally getting to be yourself, it’s more of a celebration. Like, you are living your f—ing life.”
Do YOU agree with Miley’s views, Perezcious readers???
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