Showing posts with label Disappointment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Disappointment. Show all posts

Thursday, November 30, 2017

Matt Lauer Apologizes for Causing "Hurt, Damage and Disappointment"

Matt Lauer has finally addressed the actions that prompted NBC to fire him in the middle of the night on Monday.


Two days after he was let go due to what network executives deemed to be “inappropriate sexual behavior,” the long-time Today Show host has issued a lengthy statement.



He doesn’t deny very much about what has been said about him in it.


Through his own publicist, Lauer said the following this morning.


We’ll just go ahead and run it word-for-word:


There are no words to express my sorrow and regret for the pain I have caused others by words and actions. To the people I have hurt, I am truly sorry.


As I am writing this I realize the depth of the damage and disappointment I have left behind at home and at NBC.


Some of what is being said about me is untrue or mischaracterized, but there is enough truth in these stories to make me feel embarrassed and ashamed.


I regret that my shame is now shared by the people I cherish dearly.


Repairing the damage will take a lot of time and soul searching and I’m committed to beginning that effort. It is now my full time job.


The last two days have forced me to take a very hard look at my own troubling flaws. It’s been humbling. I am blessed to be surrounded by the people I love.


I thank them for their patience and grace.



Lauer, of course, is the latest major name in Hollywood to be accused of some kind of sexual harassment or misconduct.


Sparked by a report that exposed producer Harvey Weinstein as a serial predator, victims have been inspired for weeks to come forward.


As a result, A-Listers such as Kevin Spacey, Louis C.K. and Charlie Rose have been exposed, accused fired or all of the above.


But Lauer is probably the biggest name so far, considering how long he had served as lead anchor on Today, greeting millions of viewers every morning.


There had been rumors for years that NBC might let him go due to alleged attitude problems and falling ratings.


Not due to the sort of allegations that are now surrounding the embattled star.



He reportedly sent co-workers sex toys and demanded they be used in his presence.


He reportedly dropped his pants in front of underlings and asked them to perform a sex act.


He reportedly bent a staffer over a chair in his office and had sex with her against her will, to the point that she passed out halfway through the interaction.


These accusations are way past the point of the occasional inappropriate or misguided touch.


It seems truly astounding (and confusing and depressing) that such actions could have been going on for so long at such a major program; without colleagues either knowing or caring enough to do anything about them.


And it’s beyond disturbing that Lauer may have actually committed these acts, of course.



Today remains the most-watched morning program among viewers between 25 and 54, the demographic most coveted by advertisers in news programming.


Lauer had been the head anchor since 1994, earning more than $ 25 million per year with his new contract.


It’s unclear at the moment who will take his place alongside Savannah Guthrie each morning, but that’s not really anyone’s focus right now.


We’re just trying to figure out what happened at the show, how it went unreported for so long… and whether we’d feel bad if Lauer were hung by his toenails for the next several hours.



Upon dismissing Lauer, NBC News Chairman Andrew Lack said the following:


“On Monday night, we received a detailed complaint from a colleague about inappropriate sexual behavior in the workplace by Matt Lauer…


“Our highest priority is to create a workplace environment where everyone feels safe and protected, and to ensure that any actions that run counter to our core values are met with consequences, no matter who the offender.


“We are deeply saddened by this turn of events. But we will face it together as a news organization – and do it in as transparent a manner as we can.”


We’ll continue to keep readers apprised of this horrible story as it develops.


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Friday, October 21, 2016

Ariel Winter: Donald Trump is a Disappointment!

That Ariel Winter … she’s so great, right?


Sure, she’s smart and funny and talented, but she’s also pretty vocal about the issues that are important to her, issues like bullying, feminism, and all that important stuff.


Also, boobs.



(Sorry not sorry.)


Oh, and speaking of important stuff — and boobs, we guess, because we are talking about Ariel Winter, after all — this girl gave an interview to Entertainment Tonight yesterday about Donald Trump.


Spoiler alert: she’s not into him.


“I think it’s really disappointing that we’ve made so many strides towards promoting body positivity for women — and for men — and for empowering women, and he really kind of just tears it all down,” she said.


“I think it’s really disappointing that he’s made it this far — that he is a presidential candidate, and this is possibly the person who will be representing the United States.”



She used the word “disappointing” twice here to describe Donald Trump. We feel like she could have used it about a trillion more times, you know, for accuracy. but she makes a good point.


Ariel also brought up her own experiences with being bullied about her body. It’s relevant, of course, because Donald can’t seem to shut up about women’s bodies for one literal minute.


“For many years,” she revealed, “I faced tons of online criticism from cyber bullying.”


“I had a ton of self esteem issues, so I had a really long positivity journey of learning to be confident in myself.”


And that’s when Ariel Winter took us to church.



“When I was first in the spotlight, I was flat-chested and I had no curves and was getting hate for that.”


“Then, I turned 12 and automatically had boobs and a butt and a curvy body and it was something, at first, that I was really excited about, until photos started coming out of me on the Internet and people started really, really hating on what I looked like.”


She said “I was called fat and ugly and a slut, and a lot of things for just being me, and it was really difficult.”


“For many years, I did my best to try and diet to lose weight, or change the way I dressed, and change the things I talked about to see if it would help and to see if people would reply more positively to me if I did that.”


Aww, isn’t that sweet? She thought that she could change the way she dressed and that it would make people stop being the worst. How quaint.



“I finally said to myself, ‘You know, I’m wasting so much time trying to please other people when I really should be focusing on the most important relationship I have, which is the one I have with myself,"” Ariel concluded.


“And I took that time to really focus on me, and to understand that people’s comments aren’t what matter.”


And that’s absolutely true — what people say about you doesn’t matter, it only matters what you think about yourself.


God bless Ariel Winter.



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