90 Day Fiance Sneak Peek: Fernanda Struggles to Trust Jonathan

Pro-tip for anyone moving in with a new significant other: you probably want to not still be holding on to an ex"s underwear.

That has of course been an issue on 90 Day Fiance, when Fernanda found Jonathan"s ex"s thong in his home.

In this sneak peek, we see that she"s still trying to decide whether or not she can trust him, with the awkward help of his friend.

So, Fernanda Flores had the misfortune of not only finding another woman"s thong, but having that be almost her first experience in Jonathan Rivera"s home.

This brought underlying doubts about everything — the move, the engagement, and their 13-year age gap (she"s 19, he"s 32) — to the surface.

As you can see in this video, one of Jonathan"s friends was there to lend some emotional support.

"It’s hard to talk with Jonathan’s friends about our problems," Fernanda admits.

"I feel, of course, more comfortable talking with my friends but I don’t have that option," she explains.

Fernanda is very aware that "If I told my friends and my family, they will be disappointed in Jonathan."

She realizes that she was nervous, and that finding Jonathan"s ex"s thong, which he"d forgotten in a drawer, seemed like her worst fears realized.

"It was terrible,” Fernanda admits.

At this point, speaking to Jonathan"s (thus far unnamed) friend, she begins to cry.

Jonathan"s friend gives her a hug and a literal shoulder on which to cry.

“When I came here," Fernanda laments. "I’m so excited and it made me feel stupid."

They"d met while he was on vacation, but ultimately she didn"t know much about him except what she had told him.

It sounds really romantic, but it can lead to doubts.

"I want to believe in him," Fernanda explains.

"But," she admits. "You think the worst."

"Of course she had some concerns," Jonathan"s friend, who is both kind and no-nonsense.

"If I had been in the country for the first time [and] I’m giving up everything to come here and marry someone," his friend says.

She continues: "and then the first day I get there I find a woman’s underwear, I would have lost it."

But, she says, it"s not a sign that he"s a cheater.

“This is typical Jonathan," she says. "No telling how long that’s been in there."

"He hasn’t thought about it," she explains. "He’s just a boy and he’s dumb."

Jonathan"s friend just explained at least one-third of all relationship problems.

(Seriously, can we get her to show up on 90 Day Fiance for other couples? Can that be a thing?)

It seems that the thong looked like a red flag, but also represented — as we mentioned — other concerns.

Hopefully, this talk with Jonathan"s friend (even if she"s not exactly a neutral party) helped to allay Fernanda"s fears.

It may have been awkward for her, especially when the reality of "my friend is going to marry a teenager" set in.

But everyone involved here is an adult. It looks like they met naturally and fell in love.

Fair warning, folks, we have a bit of a 90 Day Fiance spoiler for you.

If you find yourself rooting for Jonathan and Fernanda (I know that I have been), you"re in luck.

The two of them celebrated Halloween together this week. That"s not usually something you do when you break up.

And some reddit sleuths unearthed what appears to be evidence that these two got married back in May.

Sometimes, people make it work.

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90 Day Fiance Recap: Fernanda Finds WHAT in Jonathan"s Home?!

90 Day Fiance had its Season 6 premiere, and the drama is already heating up.

Though fans have already met the Season 6 couples, we learned a lot more on the premiere.

Including which fiancee arrived in the US and almost immediately found another woman’s underwear in her fiance’s home.

Let’s start with Jonathan and Fernanda.

These two are both adults, but their 12-year age difference is raising some eyebrows, especially since Fernanda is 19.

As we saw on the 90 Day Fiance premiere, it’s not just fans who are thinking about how these two are in different stages of their lives.

Jonathan’s status as a bachelor in is 30s is clearly making Fernanda a little insecure.

Her finding a pair of panties in his apartment on her first day didn’t help matters.

They belonged to his ex, which he tried to explain, but it was not a good start for these two.

Kalani and Asuelu are one of those couples that you find yourself really rooting for.

They both seem sweet and neither appear to be monsters. Also, the way that Kalani talks to the camera is charming.

Fans may like these two, but Kalani’s family is not on board.

it turns out that her devoutly Mormon family is not happy that she lost he virginity to and had a baby with a man who is not yet her husband.

“My family was not supportive of me being with Asuelu,” Kalani revealed. “They thought he was just taking advantage of me.”

She revealed that her father, who is Samoan himself, had hoped that she would end up with a very different man.

There are deeper issues at play, here.

Ashley and Jay are another couple with an age gap, but that’s taking a back seat.

Because Jay’s horndog personality is not subtle. He isn’t shy about telling the camera about how much he loves sex.

Ashley’s loved ones are worried that he cheated on her while they were in a long distance relationship.

“Maybe I don’t care what Jay does when I’m not over there,” Ashley claims.

She says: “What he does in Jamaica when I’m not there is none of my business.”

Ashley does at least admit: “I’m hoping that he changed his ways.”

Sex positivity is great — but cheating? That’s less cool. She’s hoping that he becomes devoted to her in America.

Colt and Larissa aren’t on the same page just yet.

There was a rpoblem with Larissa’s visa, so she had to miss her flight.

She asked Colt to go ahead and book the next one, but he wanted to wait to book a flght after her visa issues were worked out.

Larissa didn’t understand that, and it soon became clear that she assumes that, as an American, he is wealthier than he is.

“She’s in for an extremely rude awakening,” Colt admits.

And this is all before she’s met this momma’s boy’s mother — or their many cats.

Eric and Leida are really flipping the script.

Though Eric is an older American and Leida is younger, she enjoyed a life of privilege in Indonesia.

Eric, though a 40-year-old veteran, seems to be making just enough to get by.

In fact, as we learned on the premiere, he had been splitting rent with his 19-year-old daughter.

To prepare for the arrival of Leida and her 5-year-old son, he asked his daughter to move out, which obviously created some friction.

He and Leida both expressed some anxieties about making this work.

Despite their misgivings, smart money says that Eric and Leida are likely to make it to the altar if she’s already come this far.

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