Showing posts with label Encouraging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Encouraging. Show all posts

Friday, August 4, 2017

Michelle Carter Sentenced to Minimum of 15 Months in Prison for Encouraging Boyfriend’s Suicide

Michelle Carter, the Massachusetts native who was convicted several weeks ago of involuntary manslaughter in the 2014 suicide of her boyfriend, was sentenced to two-and-a-half years in prison today.


She is only expected to serve 15 months, however, as a judge declared the rest of her sentence suspended.


Moreover, Carter will not begin serving her term until her potential appeal is resolved, a judge ruled this afternoon.




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Carter’s case has garnered national headlines due to its unusual nature.


While the way Carter acted toward Conrad Roy three years ago was undeniable despicable, questions have been raised over whether she ought to be held legally responsible for his death.


In July of 2014, Roy locked himself in his truck and committed suicide via carbon monoxide poisoning.


The incident took place after Carter, who was 17 years old at the time, urged Roy – through text messages and phone conversations – to take his own life.


She was even on the phone with him, encouraging the 18-year old, who had a history of mental illness, to remain his pickup truck as it filled with the deadly gas while it was parked near a store.


Altogether, it is believed Carter sent Roy over 1,000 text messages during their relationship.




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Among the most damaging were messages such as the following:


  • You always say you’re gonna do it, but you never do. I just want to make sure tonight is the real thing.

  • You just have to do it.

  • It’s painless and quick.

Authorities also discovered Carter’s written admission to a friend in which she thought back a phone call with Roy, who had exited his truck as it filled with toxic fumes.


He told her that he was frightened and didn’t want to abandon his family.


“Get back in,” Carter said she told him.


In June, Massachusetts Judge Lawrence Moniz found Carter guilty of involuntary manslaughter, describing her behavior as “reckless.”


While confirming the verdict, Moniz said that Carter instructed Roy “to get back into the truck well knowing of all of the feelings he [had] exchanged with her, his ambiguities, his fears, his concerns.”


During the case, prosecutors asked for Carter to receive between seven and 12 years in prison, while Carter’s lawyer recommended five years of supervised probation and mental health counseling.


According to court documents, Carter and Roy had been texting about death for many weeks leading up to the suicide, The Washington Post has written.


Per the newspaper, in one message, Carter (pictured below) wrote:


“You’re finally going to be happy in heaven. No more pain. It’s OK to be scared and it’s normal. I mean, you’re about to die.”




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In a statement read in court prior to sentencing, Conrad’s mother, Lynn Roy, wrote the following:


“There is not one day that I do not mourn the loss of my beloved son.”


Added his father:


“Michelle Carter exploited my son’s weaknesses and used him as a pawn. How could Michelle Carter behave so viscously and encourage my son to end his life? Where was her humanity?”


In announcing today’s sentencing, Bristol County Juvenile Court Judge Lawrence Moniz said:


“This court must and has balanced between rehabilitation, the promise that rehabilitation would work and a punishment for the actions that have occurred.”




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If you or someone you know is showing warning signs of suicide, please contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK.


You can also text the Crisis Text Line at 741741 or seek help from a professional.


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Sunday, November 22, 2015

Jim Bob Duggar: Encouraging Josh with New Blog Post?

Jim Bob Duggar has a message for all his fellow fathers out there, though said message may be targeted toward one struggling dad in particular.


Is he sending a thinly-veiled message to Josh Duggar, his first-born son who is currently toiling away in a Christian sex rehab labor camp?



No one knows with certainty. But when the patriarch pens an open letter on the family website, urging dads to become the “coach of your home”?


It sure as crap reads like that’s his intended audience.


Jim Bob begins by encouraging fathers to be “spiritual leaders” by sharing a very personal story of the time his wife, Michelle, suffered a miscarriage.


Going through that while she was on birth control, he says, shaped their views on children (and clearly, they take those views seriously).


“We had been rejecting His gifts,” Jim Bob wrote. “We prayed and asked God to forgive us and we gave Him this area of our lives.”


“We said, ‘Lord, help us to love children the way that you love children,’ and Lord, we want to receive each one as a gift from you."”


Jim Bob says that in order to be a leader, it’s urgent that fathers ask forgiveness from Jesus, their significant other and children.


He also suggested that dads remove all “books, magazines, television or Internet that have worldly or sensual content” from the home.



To protect one’s family, this is crucial, he advises:


“Replace them with good things, [such as] wholesome music, biographies of great Christians, good old-fashioned family fun and games.”


This open letter comes just days after we learned that some members of the Duggar family have visiting and encouraging Josh in rehab.


It’s not the first time we’ve heard the Duggars hate on worldly or sensual content, nor is it at all surprising that they would do just that.


The timing is curious, though, amid conflicting reports regarding the state of Josh’s fractured marriage to the long-suffering Anna Duggar.


Having admitted an online porn addiction and being “unfaithful” to Anna earlier this summer, Josh has been on thin ice to say the least.


Still, he’s not giving up with out a fight, and some sources say he’s pushing Anna to have another baby to help save the marriage (really).



On the flip side, others speculate that Anna is finally leaving Josh after porn star Danica Dillon sued him for giving her rough-sex-induced PTSD.


Meanwhile, Anna is breaking her silence.


“It was heartbreaking to hear, what had happened,” an emotional Anna, 27, said in a promo for TLC’s Jill and Jessa: Counting On released Friday.


At this point, it remains unclear exactly what Anna is planning, and even where Josh is. Rumors suggest he may have bailed on rehab months early.


A plane carrying Jim Bob and two of his sons was spotted Friday at an airport in Rockford, Ill., near the facility where Josh is (or was) being treated.


Insiders say the plane was on the ground for several hours, before taking back off to Springdale, Arkansas, where the Duggar family resides.


The plot thickens.