Gorgeous 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After? star Paola Mayfield is answering some nagging questions that followers can’t help but ask.
(Though curiously, she leaves one major question off of the list)
The biggest and most important query is whether or not she and Russ are still together and whether they’ve finally stopped fighting over Paola’s job.
Pao starts her post with: “I hope this photo gets your attention!”
You’ll see the photo in question in a moment. Suffice it to say that she was successful.
“Frequently asked questions: Did my husband ever get over me taking photos like this?” Paola says.
This is just the first of several FAQs that she wishes to address.
“Well,” she answers. “Yes and no but it doesn’t affect him as much as some of you.”
Believe it or not, Paola actually gets hate sometimes from fans who think that she should abandon her career to just, like, iron the curtains of her lord husband’s house.
“He accepts me,” Paola says. “Loves me and respects me the way I am and lets me work even when he is not 100% comfortable.”
“We fight and we make up,” Paola says. “Girls talk like never they fight with their spouses, talking about me not being a “good wife” just because the gigs I take are ‘too sexy"”
Some people don’t argue with their loved ones, but those are definitely a minority.
“But let’s be honest,” Paola continues. “None of you have seen photos of me completely naked or rumors of me being unfaithful to my husband.”
Definitely not! Though there is of course nothing wrong with posing nude.
Paola writes: “My only ‘sin’ is my work.”
It is good that Pao put sin in quotation marks, because, even if you believe that there is such a thing as sin, it’s hard to imagine that looking pretty in photos qualifies as one.
“God will be the only one judging me,” Paola says. “Not wannabe perfects!”
Paola cites another question: “Why do I not end up my friendship with Juan?”
Russ had some insecurities about his wife’s friendship with Juan, leading some fans to absurdly demand that she end a friendship.
“It is easy to say it,” Paola says. “But you wouldn’t call it a friendship if you don’t care about someone after 16 years of friendship and without trying to make it work.”
She’s right!
“I don’t have many friends,” Paola continues. “Maybe because I don’t trust people that easy and I am ok with that but giving up part of my life and past isn’t easy for me.”
“I love my husband but I also love my friends,” Paola explains.
That’s good. Any boyfriend or husband who insists that you stop having friends is toxic.
“My life didn’t end when I got married,” Paola explains. “it was the beginning of a new chapter.”
Last but not least, Paola addresses questions about “My ‘delusional’ modeling and acting career. This is one is easy.”
“I really don’t know why people care so much if I model or act at my age,” she admits.
For the record, Paola is drop-dead gorgeous. But that’s beside the point. Even if she weren’t, it would still be her choice to model.
Paola asks and answers: “Is it your business if I succeed or fail? No.”
“Is it your life?” Paola asks, before answering: “No.”
She’s right.
“I’m living my life to the fullest,” Paola writes. “And I’m having so much fun with all that I do!”
“My conscience is clear and clean,” Paola writes, followed by a red heart emoji.
Paola then says that she is “just happy that I’m doing great and I’m chasing my dreams.”
Good for her!
As we mentioned, there was no effort to address lingering questions about whether Paola Mayfield is pregnant.
But though she is a reality star, that’s still her business.
Perhaps it was so far from her mind that she didn’t even think to include it on the list.
Maybe.
