Showing posts with label Consent. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Consent. Show all posts

Thursday, November 16, 2017

Al Franken Apologizes for Groping, Kissing Woman Without Her Consent

In the aftermath of the Weinstein rape accusations and further accusations about numerous powerful men coming to light, not a lot of revelations have really shocked us.


But today, a radio newscaster named Leeann Tweeden publicly accused Al Franken of having groped her and kissed her without her consent in 2006.


Al Franken has issued an apology, but that doesn’t in any way negate his past actions.



Describing her upsetting experiences with Al Franken, Leeann Tweeden writes:


“In December of 2006, I embarked on my ninth USO Tour to entertain our troops, my eighth to the Middle East since the 9/11 attacks. My father served in Vietnam and my then-boyfriend (and now husband, Chris) is a pilot in the Air Force, so bringing a ‘little piece of home’ to servicemembers stationed far away from their families was both my passion and my privilege.”


Tweeden shares that she was going to be in a skit that Franken had written, and he kept pressuring her to “practice” the scene’s kiss.


(Before getting into politics, Franken was on SNL. So a skit makes sense. A kiss, though, should not be necessary. Rehearsals less so)


“He repeated that actors really need to rehearse everything and that we must practice the kiss. I said ‘OK’ so he would stop badgering me.”


There are sadly a lot of harassment stories that we’ve heard, especially lately, involving women giving in not out of a desire to consent, but because they’ve been worn down or fear the consequences of saying no.


“We did the line leading up to the kiss and then he came at me, put his hand on the back of my head, mashed his lips against mine and aggressively stuck his tongue in my mouth.”


That is gross and unacceptable. You do not kiss people without consent. Kisses should be fun for both parties or they should not happen at all.



“I immediately pushed him away with both of my hands against his chest and told him if he ever did that to me again I wouldn’t be so nice about it the next time.”


That is a more than fair response.


“I walked away. All I could think about was getting to a bathroom as fast as possible to rinse the taste of him out of my mouth.”


A horrifying feeling.


“I felt disgusted and violated.”


And remember that she still had to go on stage with him.


“Not long after, I performed the skit as written, carefully turning my head so he couldn’t kiss me on the lips.”


After that, she avoided interacting with him. But eventually, his harassment continued … while she slept:


“The tour wrapped and on Christmas Eve we began the 36-hour trip home to L.A. After 2 weeks of grueling travel and performing I was exhausted. When our C-17 cargo plane took off from Afghanistan I immediately fell asleep, even though I was still wearing my flak vest and Kevlar helmet.”


She did not learn that he had posed with his hands over her breasts until looking through the CD of photos that the photographer had given her, back at home.


She felt violated all over, and you can see why:



Kevlar or no, there is no excuse for that.


Senator Al Franken has publicly apologized:


“The first thing I want to do is apologize: to Leeann, to everyone else who was part of that tour, to everyone who has worked for me, to everyone I represent, and to everyone who counts on me to be an ally and supporter and champion of women.”


Starting with an apology is absolutely appropriate. This is a clear apology, unlike Louis C.K.’s open admission. There’s a difference, and it matters.


Al Franken continues:


“I respect women. I don’t respect men who don’t.”


We feel the same way.


“And the fact that my own actions have given people a good reason to doubt that makes me feel ashamed.”


Shame is very appropriate.



Mitch McConnell has called for an ethics investigation into Al Franken, and Al Franken has agreed.


Leeann Tweeden has publicly accepted Al Franken’s apology, and says that she is not calling for an ethics investigation into him.


(We’re not sure what there is to investigate, as Al Franken’s apology sounds like an admission, but even Franken isn’t opposing it)


Many people on both sides of the political aisle feel that it would be appropriate for Al Franken to resign.


Overall, Democratics haven’t shown any signs of chill in condemning Al Franken’s shameful, inexcusable actions.


The controversy surrounding Alabama candidate Roy Moore’s alleged penchant for underage girls, one that got him banned from a local mall in his thirties, comes to mind.


We all need to remember that, though some political parties may respond different to different accusations, sexual harassment and sexual predation don’t know political boundaries.



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Thursday, July 6, 2017

"Bachelor in Paradise" Star Amanda Stanton says Consent For Sex a Must During Filming

“Bachelor in Paradise” star Amanda Stanton just finished shooting the show, and she says the new rules didn’t really get in the way when it came to hooking up.  Amanda flew into LAX from Mexico Wednesday and told our photog she followed…


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Monday, June 12, 2017

Corinne Olympios: I Did Not Consent to Sex with DeMario Jackson!

Corinne Olympios reportedly says she did not consent to any pool sex with DeMario Jackson on Bachelor in Paradise … and has lawyered up.


What does she say happened on that night in question?




CO and DJ


She has no idea. Which is the issue here, of course.


The infamous Bachelor and Bachelorette alumni hooked up on the set of the ABC show, and production has been shut down in the aftermath. 


According to TMZ, citing sources close to Corinne, she was in a blackout state of drunkenness when she got sexual with DeMario Jackson.


She blames producers for not pulling the kibosh on the Bachelor in Paradise sex scandal before it started and protecting her that night.


However, other sources quoted by the celebrity news insist there is footage of Corinne Olympios and DeMario Jackson floating around.


Those sources say Corinne looks lucid and fully “engaged” in … well, the intense sexual acts she and DJ were performing on each other.



Regardless, there seems to be consensus that Corinne was drinking the entire day of filming before she ended up naked in the pool.


While DeMario remembers everything, including “rubbing, touching and fingering” to “licking her genitals,” Olympios reportedly doesn’t.


At all.


The day after the graphic pool sex incident, she claims that fellow cast members began regaling her with stories about herself and Jackson.


She says several cast members told her they had voiced concern to producers that she was in no position to consent to sexual activity.


The crew did not heed their warnings, apparently – at least at first. Bachelor in Paradise has since been suspended, as we reported.



Olympios and Jackson were sent home after this, while the entire cast of The Bachelor and Bachelorette spinoff was dismissed soon after.


Production sources refute this, claiming that no cast members complained about Corinne being too drunk, so it’s a little confusing here.


Still, clearly Corinne is feeling bad about this.


She’s reportedly told her friends she has a boyfriend and wouldn’t have done what she did – with cameras rolling no less – to risk that.


All that being said, Corrine doesn’t fully blame DeMario for his behavior that night because he too was drunk, according to TMZ.


Rather, she blames producers for not intervening and has retained counsel. The show has been shut down until further notice.




DJ and CO


DeMario’s side of the story is reportedly that the two were both drinking at the bar and started to make out before taking it to the pool.


Some “intense rubbing” followed, TMZ writes.


Cameras rolling and inhibitions long gone, they began “rubbing, touching and fingering” one another with reckless abandon.


At that point, Corinne allegedly thrust her genitals into DeMario’s face and her co-star started to tongue her sacred area.


This is where accounts begin to differ.


Jackson reportedly said he was not able to engage in intercourse with her because of all the alcohol he consumed beforehand.


In any case, Tuesday, despite Jackson and Olympios getting along perfectly well on set, producers got wind of this and booted them.




bip cast pic


They were told that another producer was “uncomfortable” with the how they had acted – even if they were reportedly fine with it afterward.


The producer filed a formal complaint with Warner Bros., prompting the company to immediately shut things down and launch an investigation.


An Instagram photo shared last weekend (above) features the Bachelor in Paradise cast, sans Jackson and Olympios, in the Houston airport.


If they weren’t sure what was going on then, they obviously are now, as we have to imagine this marks the end of the show as we know it.


It’s hard to see a scenario in which this s–tshow ends – even if Jackson and Olympios are fully exonerated – with the status quo resuming.


Stay tuned for more as the situation unfolds.



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"Bachelor in Paradise" Star Corinne Olympios Says She Didn"t Consent to Sexual Contact with DeMario Jackson

Corinne Olympios claims she was in a blackout state when she got sexual with fellow “Bachelor in Paradise” star DeMario Jackson … and she blames producers for not pulling the plug and protecting her, although our sources say people who…


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