Jesse Meester: Darcey Silva is a Liar and a Sick, Twisted Person!

Of all of the 90 Day Fiance couples, none seems to thrive on constant fighting like Jesse Meester and Darcey Silva.

Recently, viewers saw them explode after Jesse told Darcey she’s an alcoholic. But that’s one incident among many.

Now, Jesse is exposing Darcey on social media — telling fans that she takes money from everyone, then lies about it.

Right now, 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days couple Darcey and Jesse looks like their terrible romance is on its last leg.

That’s on TV, and filmed months ago.

Right now, it looks like their quarreling is once again spilling over into social media.

After one of Jesse’s sycophantic fans (sorry, but it’s the truth) spoke about how she couldn’t stand the way that Darcey treats him, Jesse wrote back.

He thanked his fan — and then put Darcey on blast, painting her as a liar with some sort of pathological money problem.

“That she’s exploiting her ex-husband, now me and others is the least thing she should do to make herself look better,” Jesse says in slightly broken English.

“She’s adding fuel on her issues,” Jesse writes. “Especially after her restaurant situation last week.”

That would be the restaurant fight so intense that police were called. Classy.

“It’s not my problem anymore,” Jesse writes, though he’s said that before. “Although I kinda felt sad she was still dealing with the same issues.”

“But after people sent me screenshots of her behavior with the most disgraceful lies and classless statements,” he says.

Those screenshots were “about that we had sex in a hotel room I paid for, that I gave to her when she started drama.”

“And then say how she was not treated right and she payed for a trip? Lol,” Jesse writes. “My last bit of empathy is gone.”

“To claim you paid for a trip to Greece I paid for you is despicable,” he says. “That was a surprise I arranged for her.”

“Oh and the (business class) tickets and your free acces to my company’s guidance and so many more things I helped you with,” Jesse adds.

“And then acting like this is a total disgrace!” Jesse declares. “Just when you thought she couldn’t go any lower….”

“Just not over my back after doing everything for you and going above and beyond,” he writes.

One detail of Jesse’s comment really caught the attention of a number of 90 Day Fiance fans.

“When you sell my rings (which is totally fine) and complaint about not having money or not being able to pay off your debt,” he writes.

Jesse continues: “when a lot of people help you out financially there is something else going on you need to take a closer look at.”

In other words, he is accusing her of having some sort of underlying problem of spending money, asking for financial help, and then overspending again.

Jesse also notes that: “Her false accusations need to stop.”

“This is all I gotta say about this really,” Jesse says.

Anyone want to take bets on whether or not Jesse will talk about Darcey again in the future?

“Pure disgust how someone can go that low after all you did,” Jesse laments.

Again, he implies that she has some sort of pathology or compulsion.

Jesse concludes: “Like she just can’t stop it.”

Jesse Meester isn’t exactly the best guy in the world, either.

He and Darcey are toxic as a couple, but both are toxic as individuals.

(After all, this is the guy who shares private details, true or not, with random fans who say nice things to him)

To be brutally honest, folks, a lot of Jesse’s fans are older women who refuse to see past his hotness.

They despise Darcey but seeing him with an older woman makes them think that they could be so much better for him.

We’re not speculating — they write this out, more or less, in his Instagram comments. He knows this.

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90 Day Fiance: Did Darcey Silva and Jesse Meester Get MARRIED Already?!

We’ve had to wonder more than once if 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days stars Darcey Silva and Jesse Meester had split. Back in October, the two seemed to get into a very public argument — on social media — like a pair of hormonal middle schoolers.

But they’re now singing a very different tune — and each other’s praises.

More significantly, they’ve taken to referring to each other as “Mr. and Mrs. Meester.” Have they gotten married?

Normally, 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days could be called “Seriously Dating” or perhaps “Unlimited Engagement.”

Because it’s filmed outside of the US, before the non-American partner travels to the US to begin their K-1 visa process.

Because, at the end of those 90 days, you have to either get married or leave, folks.

Darcey, who is 42 and also a mother, has been visiting 24-year-old Jesse Meester in Amsterdam.

Though the couple has given us cause to wonder more than once if they’re still together, they seem determined to make it work.

Even though, well, Darcey seems to get jealous of her hottie fiance and Jesse once publicly accused Darcey of alcoholism.

But 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days stars who stay together are usually supposed to move forward and be on 90 Day Fiance, only then do they get married.

But recent posts have had fans wondering if the couple skipped a step and went ahead and tied the knot.

The above photo was captioned:

“After the Mr. & Mrs. Meester photoshoot in Amsterdam at the palace.”

And then there’s this:

Early Thursday morning, Darcey Silva posted this photo of the couple in white.

Her caption was … interesting:

“We [red heart emoji] you TLC! Thanks for today!”

The numerous tags to that vague message included #lovewins, which had a lot of people wondering if they’d officially tied the knot.

It would make sense, if TLC recorded their wedding. But it would make sense if TLC did just about anything for them.

Also, Jesse and Darcey are notorious for their excessive tagging of photos.

(Honestly, even though they’ve had their very public tiffs, these two seem perfect for each other in the hungry-for-fame department)

But even if today’s photo can be explained away … what about the Mr. and Mrs. Meester stuff?

Just look at the photo that Darcey shared:

(Actually, she posted a reversed image of this photo — we flipped it around so that you can read it more easily)

So, naturally, fans had to wonder if the couple had married.

Darcey tried to head off the speculation that she herself was fueling … by adding this caption:

“My Love… my Meester…not married… but did a fun photoshoot Emulating the movie poster like Mr and Mrs Smith style.”

First of all, that’s a weird photoshoot to do for a couple that isn’t married, right?

Second of all, Mr and Mrs Smith stars Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s whirlwind romance and then marriage ended with one of them being interrogated by the FBI for alleged child-abuse.

Not super romantic. Not like it would have been in, like, 2015.

Jesse Meester openly acknowledged that the couple’s excitement about the photoshoot was a little confusing.

Replying to a fan who, understandably, asked if they’d married, Jesse wrote:

“We did a photoshoot in the style of Mr. & Mrs. Smith so I get the mindf–k but we’re not married yet.”

He followed that message with a winking emoji.

Uh-oh, we hope that Darcey doesn’t get jealous of that wink and throw another fit!

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90 Day Fiance: Did Darcey Silva & Jesse Meester Split?

This isn"t the first time that we"ve had to wonder if Darcey Silva and Jesse Meester are still together. The couple comes from different continents and also different generations.

This time, though, the two had a huge Instagram fight. That"s about as public as a fight can get without being on pay-per-view.

They"ve been a staple of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days. Fans are understandably concerned that they"re splitting before the 90 days ever begin.

In case you need a quick refresher:

90 Day Fiance is so named because US immigration policy permits someone engaged to a US citizen to enter the country in order to live with their fiance for as long as 90 days.

After that period of time, however, the couple needs to marry … or go their separate ways.

90 Day Fiance follows couples as they undergo that process. In some cases, that means that they are meeting in person for the first time in months — or even for the first time at all.

90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days is a spin-off series that finds couples before the 90-day clock starts ticking. Which means that they are not yet in the US as a couple.

Darcey Silva is 42-year-old American.

Jesse Meester is a 24-year-old Dutch hottie. Seriously, he"s a fitness model.

From judgmental friends and relatives who have issues with their age difference to the regular differences that two distinct individuals might have in their personalities, Darcey and Jesse have not been a sure thing.

Fans and viewers have been on the edges of their seats. Will the couple make it?

Well, just a couple of days ago, someone threw a wrench into this relationship.

And that someone was Darcey Silva.

She allegedly drunkenly attacked one of Jesse"s fans on Instagram. Don"t mix jealousy and booze, folks.

(Frankly, there are real stories of Instagram models connecting with fans, so jealousy here might be toxic but it"s kinda understandable)

The two of them weren"t secretive about how unhappy they were with each other.

Darcey responded to a fan"s innocuous comment with: "Maybe you guys got something special. If u want him then just ask him."

Jesse replied to that with: "Sorry for that! She knows she has a problem with alcohol and shouldn"t do this. She knows she needs help and shouldn"t randomly attack or accuse people when she drinks."

That"s Jesse straight-up accusing Darcey of being an alcoholic. We"re not saying that we have any evidence that he"s wrong, but we are saying that this isn"t healthy for a relationship.

The spat ended up with deleted comments.

This was only a few days ago — on October 29th. This was Sunday.

Fast forward a couple of days, however, and the couple is singing a different tune.

In the video that you"ll see below, Darcey and Jesse make it clear that they"re still together.

They added this caption:

"What you haven’t seen yet… Our love story! Thank you all for being a part of this. I love my girl with all my heart. We grow, we fight, we make mistakes, but we always love and overcome!"

Jesse included a couple of heart emojis with that, which makes it even sweeter.

Some people, as hard as this is for the rest of us to understand, argue pretty regularly with their significant others. That sounds super toxic, but we guess that Darcey and Jesse don"t mind.

This sweet video isn"t the first time that they"ve put their affection on display.

Darcey is all too happy to talk about how sexy Jesse is and even about their sex life.

She also shared this caption with a photo of the two of them:

"I am his Queen…He is my King…Together we are bonded by our soul & love…Together as a Twinflame we build our Empire…Together as one we love, create and manifest our true Love Legacy."

That"s very sweet and also the sort of thing that you should maybe whisper into a lit candle or a crystal or whatever instead of posting on Instagram. It"s a lot.

But this reassuring video that they shared with their fans hit just the right tone. It"s precious.

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90 Day Fiance: Are Darcey Silva and Jesse Meester Still Together?

We talk a lot about 90 Day Fiance and 90 Day Fiance: Happily Ever After? on here. But there’s another spinoff series, and it deserves its time in the spotlight, too.

90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days may have an awkward title, but the show — which began airing last month — has some great couples.

But some troubling social media posts had fans wondering if one of the most compelling couples — Darcey and Jesse — had called it quits.

Darcey Silva is 42 and Jesse Meester is 24.

The age gap alone is enough of a hurdle to leap, between the fact that they come from different worlds to the stares and social pressures that they’re likely to face.

And then there’s the fact that Jesse is Dutch and Darcey is from the US.

Their height difference might mean that they’re statistically more likely to stay together than a lot of couples, but they’re still facing an uphill climb as a couple.

And we don’t mean that in the sexy, “climb him like a tree,” way. Though Darcey hasn’t been shy about how how her fitness model fiance is.

After Jesse posted about getting a workout by swimming in the sea, Darcey had this to add.

“Ohhhh Yes U do baby….thank heaven you and I get a different kinda workout too outside the sea too! A sexy workout!!! If you know what I mean! Lol!!!”

That’s kind of precious.

It’s affectionate, but it’s also exactly the sort of awkward posting style that anyone whose mom is on Facebook might expect to see from a 42-year-old woman.

One of Darcey’s very different posts to social media, however, caught the attention of fans (even though it was deleted) and has had people wondering if the couple that they’ve seen bonding on screen has broken up in real life.

Back in July, Darcey posted and then deleted an angry mini-rant on Facebook that seemingly could not be about anyone but Jesse.

“So over it!!!! Now he can f–k all the other b–ches!!!”

That sounded like bad news for the couple.

(Good news for “all the other b–ches,” though)

This week, however, the couple seems to be singing a different tune.

Obviously, there are some restrictions on what they can share about their romantic lives to avoid “spoiling” things for viewers.

But Darcey posted a photo of the two of them (one so blurry that we won’t make you look at it here; have you seen fog? Imagine a black-and-white movie filmed by a blind person in the fog), with this caption:

“To everyone in the world who has a compassionate heart and gentle ear to listen to my heartfelt message. I am sorry if you don’t feel me…I am only here for love. I truly want you to know from the bottom of my heart and soul that I will always love and stand by my Man. He is a strong, loving, trustworthy, compassionate, and respectable man! I will always love him, trust and believe in him with all my love deep in my soul!”

So … between that and the previous post, it sounds like she was having some trust issues but is working to get over them.

Jesse also had some comments.

Also this week.

In a now-deleted comment, some nasty little troll said something negative about Darcey.

And Jesse didn’t care for that.

“You make me laugh. You like to think that, don’t you? She never said such a thing. 3 months ago she wrote: “i’m over it. He can f*ck all the other b*tches now as seen on gossip articles. Out of frustration and vulnerability she wrote that.”

Some people don’t have great impulse-control, and social media does not combine well with that.

“Is that ok? No. It that nice/smart? Absolutely not. And she knows my opinion very well about this. But we never broke up. So watch the show to see how it will go between us. There’s more to come. Darcey had that public ‘writing tendency’ 3 months ago.”

It sounds like he’s being very honest, here.

And he plugs 90 Day Fiance!

“I distant myself from that behavior and find it immature, and she knows that. It only causes confusion. And sometimes, that confusion is really fun, because people love to elaborate on that and create even more stories. So more laughs for me.”

That’s a great attitude to have about gossip.

“I did a youtube video on this subject. She apologized for that comment right after. And after that post she decided to step away from social media which I respect her for. I support her, but I am not in control of what she does or writes. Nothing but love.”

Awww!

He says to watch to find out how things are going with them … but really, it sounds like they’re still together.

The intriguing dynamic to 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days is that the people on there haven’t begun the K-1 visa process.

Some of the couples featured on 90 Day Fiance in the past truly hadn’t met before the visa process began. On this show, though, we see them before their 90 day race towards a major life decision begins.

They face different challenges (and with less of a set-in-stone deadline) than they will when they do begin the K-1 visa process.

We look forward to seeing where Darcey and Jesse end up. 

At an altar, if these posts are any indication.

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