This isn"t the first time that we"ve had to wonder if Darcey Silva and Jesse Meester are still together. The couple comes from different continents and also different generations.
This time, though, the two had a huge Instagram fight. That"s about as public as a fight can get without being on pay-per-view.
They"ve been a staple of 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days. Fans are understandably concerned that they"re splitting before the 90 days ever begin.
In case you need a quick refresher:
90 Day Fiance is so named because US immigration policy permits someone engaged to a US citizen to enter the country in order to live with their fiance for as long as 90 days.
After that period of time, however, the couple needs to marry … or go their separate ways.
90 Day Fiance follows couples as they undergo that process. In some cases, that means that they are meeting in person for the first time in months — or even for the first time at all.
90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days is a spin-off series that finds couples before the 90-day clock starts ticking. Which means that they are not yet in the US as a couple.
Darcey Silva is 42-year-old American.
Jesse Meester is a 24-year-old Dutch hottie. Seriously, he"s a fitness model.
From judgmental friends and relatives who have issues with their age difference to the regular differences that two distinct individuals might have in their personalities, Darcey and Jesse have not been a sure thing.
Fans and viewers have been on the edges of their seats. Will the couple make it?
Well, just a couple of days ago, someone threw a wrench into this relationship.
And that someone was Darcey Silva.
She allegedly drunkenly attacked one of Jesse"s fans on Instagram. Don"t mix jealousy and booze, folks.
(Frankly, there are real stories of Instagram models connecting with fans, so jealousy here might be toxic but it"s kinda understandable)
The two of them weren"t secretive about how unhappy they were with each other.
Darcey responded to a fan"s innocuous comment with: "Maybe you guys got something special. If u want him then just ask him."
Jesse replied to that with: "Sorry for that! She knows she has a problem with alcohol and shouldn"t do this. She knows she needs help and shouldn"t randomly attack or accuse people when she drinks."
That"s Jesse straight-up accusing Darcey of being an alcoholic. We"re not saying that we have any evidence that he"s wrong, but we are saying that this isn"t healthy for a relationship.
The spat ended up with deleted comments.
This was only a few days ago — on October 29th. This was Sunday.
Fast forward a couple of days, however, and the couple is singing a different tune.
In the video that you"ll see below, Darcey and Jesse make it clear that they"re still together.
They added this caption:
"What you haven’t seen yet… Our love story! Thank you all for being a part of this. I love my girl with all my heart. We grow, we fight, we make mistakes, but we always love and overcome!"
Jesse included a couple of heart emojis with that, which makes it even sweeter.
Some people, as hard as this is for the rest of us to understand, argue pretty regularly with their significant others. That sounds super toxic, but we guess that Darcey and Jesse don"t mind.
This sweet video isn"t the first time that they"ve put their affection on display.
Darcey is all too happy to talk about how sexy Jesse is and even about their sex life.
She also shared this caption with a photo of the two of them:
"I am his Queen…He is my King…Together we are bonded by our soul & love…Together as a Twinflame we build our Empire…Together as one we love, create and manifest our true Love Legacy."
That"s very sweet and also the sort of thing that you should maybe whisper into a lit candle or a crystal or whatever instead of posting on Instagram. It"s a lot.
But this reassuring video that they shared with their fans hit just the right tone. It"s precious.
