Jenni Farley & Roger Mathews: We Are Never, Ever, Ever Getting Back Together

Sad news from our favorite crew of tanning bed enthusiasts today.

As you may have heard, Jersey Shore star Jenni Farley has separated from Roger Mathews after three years of marriage.

The split is particularly heartbreaking, as Mathews has made it clear that he has no intention of giving up on the relationship.

In a series of videos and social media posts, Mathews has pleaded with Farley to take him back.

Alas, the famously hard-hearted JWoww seems to have no interest in a reconciliation.

Sources close to the mother of two claim Farley has stated unequivocally that she’ll never get back together with Mathews.

So fans were more than a little confused when Jenni posted pics of a Halloween photoshoot in which she posed alongside Roger and the couple’s two children.

In fact, in the comments section of Farley’s Instagram post, many of her followers congratulated her on reconciling with Mathews:

“JWoww is over Roger and as far as she is concerned, they aren’t getting back together,” a source close to the situation tells Hollywood Life.

“Jenni arranged a Halloween family photo shoot for daughter Meilani over the weekend because she’s obsessed with Disney and Moana, but that’s the only reason she did it.”

The insider says Jenni and Roger are both committed to ensuring that the split is as painless as possible for their children.

And so they’ll continue to participate in family functions together, but Farley has apparently made up her mind and plans to proceed with a divorce.

“She’ll continue to put together family functions and it gives Roger hope, but there’s really no chance she will get back together with him,” the source adds.

“It’s really important to Jenni to keep the kids lives as normal as possible,” the informant continues.

“She and Roger are completely amicable and there’s no bad blood whatsoever, but for Jenni, they’ve grown apart. Roger wants her back, but it’s not going to happen.

“They both love and respect one another, but Jenni feels they’ve kind of grown apart. Everything she’s doing right now is strictly for the kids and what’s in their best interest.”

Both parties have confirmed that there was no infidelity or abusive behavior in their marriage, and Jenni’s decision to end the relationship was simply a result of a slow deterioration of affection.

Unfortunately for Roger, it sounds as though she’s inflexible on the matter.

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Roger Mathews Celebrates Anniversary With Jenni Farley Despite Separation

Last month, Jersey Shore fans were stunned when Jenni Farley filed for divorce from Roger Mathews.

The couple was beloved by fans, and their marriage was considered by many to be the most stable among the Shore cast.

Adding to the confusion over the situation is the fact that the decision to split was not a mutual one.

In fact, it seems as though Jenni made up her mind abruptly and without warning.

Mathews has pleaded with Farley to give him a second chance in a series of heartfelt social media posts.

Roger Mathews to Jenni Farley: Take Me Back!

Of course, fans of Shore won’t be surprised to learn that JWoww is not the sentimental type and was not swayed by Rogers first attempts at a reconciliation.

But to his credit, Mathews has not given up.

This week marked three years since he and Farley got married, and he celerated the occasion by posting the photo below on his Instagram page:

“This happened 3 years ago today. 8 years together total,” Mathews captioned the pic.

“3006 days together. Not one of them was a flawless day. Not one of them would I change.

“Happy Anniversary Babe @jwoww Wedding video in my bio cause I’m a corny traditionalist.”

Obviously, Roger’s post tugs at the old heartstrings, but for all we know, Jenni is right to stand her ground.

There have been no allegations of cheating or abuse, but those who know the couple best say they’ve been showing signs of being mismatched for quite some time.

“The split was a long time coming,” one insider tells Us Weekly.

“Everyone was hoping they’d work it out, but it didn’t happen.”

Mathews seemed to confirm as much in one of his videos:

“There’s no cheating or any dumb s—t or any juicy details,” the 43-year-old recently informed fans. 

“She just grew tired of the repetitive pattern that we fell into … and [it was] not a good one,” he added.

Roger went on to say that he understands his wife’s reasons for leaving — but feels that things will be different if they give their marriage a second chance:

“I don’t blame her. I’m not done fighting. I’m gonna win my wife back,” Mathews told the camera.

“I’m gonna win her affection back, I’m gonna win her love back … We’re in counseling so there is hope. it ain’t over till the fat lady sings.”

JWoww, on the other hand, has been hesitant to speak about the split.

In her September filing, the mother of two cited only “irreconcilable differences” as her reason for leaving. 

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Jenni Farley and Roger Matthews Celebrate Anniversary, Call Divorce Into Question

On Saturday night, Roger Matthews and Jersey Shore cast member Jenni “JWOWW” Farley went out to dinner in celebration of their third wedding anniversary.

The setting looked romantic and the two sides both looked pretty happy.

But there was just one small detail that seemed a bit off about this evening out…

… Matthews and Farley are getting a divorce.

In late September, it was revealed that Farley filed documents for this sort of legal split in Ocean City, New Jersey, citing “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for the break-up.

The official complaint read as follows:

The Plaintiff and the Defendant have irreconcilable differences which have caused the breakdown of the marriage for a period of at least six months which make it appear that the marriage should be dissolved and that there is no prospect of reconciliation.

There have been no reports since of infidelity by either party.

It mostly seems as if Farley’s busy schedule, exacerbated by new seasons of Jersey Shore: Vacation, simply got in the way of the couple spending quality time together.

But Matthews has been adamant that he can win Farley back over — and that appears to have been his intention behind this anniversary-themed dinner date.

“Rome wasn’t built in a day,” he wrote as a caption to the first image in this article.

This is a pretty clear reference to Matthews committing himself to reconciling with his estranged wife, no matter how long it may take.

Simply put, said Matthews in an Instagram video after news of the divorce went viral, “I am going to win my wife back.”

He added at the time:

“I’m going to win her affection back, I am going to win her love back.

“I have no intentions on being a single dad. We’re in counseling so there is hope. It ain’t over ‘till the fat lady sings.”

Farley and Matthews share two kids, a daughter named Meilani and a son named Greyson.

“Praying for a better tomorrow,” Roger captioned his aforementioned, continuing:

“Sorry world, I’m taking a day off from praying for you today and I’m just gonna pray for my family. Hope springs eternal.”

He sure does sound sad and sincere.

However, a source recently said that Farley has no intention of rekindling this romantic flame.

“She was just unhappy, and she wasn’t in love with him anymore,” this source told Radar Online a day after the split was confirmed, adding:

“Roger has been trying everything he can to change her mind, but her mind is made up. She’s done.”

Is she, however?

Along with the date photo above, Roger posted a video of the still-husband and wife from their evening out.

They are walking to a white, pink flower-adorned horse-drawn carriage in the footage.

“The horse, oh my God,” JWOWW says.

“Your chariot awaits,” Mathews responds. “Let me get that door for you, babe. Happy anniversary.”

“Oh, why thank you. Look at that,” JWOWW then said, spotting a bouquet of flowers.

“These are for you,” Mathews replies.

So… what do you think, folks?

Might there be some hope here after all?

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Jenni Farley: I Am NEVER Getting Back With Roger Mathews!

Earlier this week, we reported on the surprising news that Jersey Shore star Jenni Farley had filed for divorce from husband Roger Mathews.

Fans were stunned, as there had been no prior indication that of friction within the couple.

Today, Mathews took to Instagram and offered a glimmer of hope that the marriage wasn’t over, after all.

In a heartfelt video, Mathews vowed to win Farley back, and judging from the response online, thousands are rooting him on.

Sadly, it looks as though those hopes are soon to be dashed.

Roger Mathews to Jenni Farley: Take Me Back!

Radar Online is now reporting that Farley has every intention of going through with the divorce and has assured friends she will never get back together with Roger.

“She was just unhappy, and she wasn’t in love with him anymore,” a source close to the couple tells Radar.

“Roger has been trying everything he can to change her mind, but her mind is made up. She’s done.”

Early reports indicated that Jenni was fed up with how much time Roger spent at work.

Now, however, Radar’s source is claiming that the opposite is true.

The insider claims that Farley felt smothered by Mathew’s expectations that she function in a traditional housewife capacity.

 

“She realized she is still young, and she doesn’t have to give up her career just because she is a mom,” says the tipster.

Apparently, Jenni and Roger began fighting when she signed on for two more seasons of Shore.

And the battles became even more intense when she entered negotiations to film further episodes beyond the show’s current run.

But based on the determination that’s evident in his latest Instagram post, you can bet that Mathews won’t be giving up easy.

“My wife filed for divorce, it’s true. I don’t blame her,” he told the camera.

“There’s no cheating, or any dumb sh-t… She just grew tired of the repetitive pattern that we fell into.”

“I’m not done fighting. I’m gonna win my wife back,” he added.

“I’m gonna win her affection back. I’m gonna win her love back. I have no intention of being a single dad. We’re in counseling so there is hope.”

Roger sounds hopeful, but it sounds as though the odds are against him.

We’ll continue to monitor the situation and keep you posted as more information becomes available.

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Jenni Farley and Roger Mathews: The Marriage is Over!

For the duration of Jersey Shore: Family Vacation, we’ve watched the ugly and contentious relationship unfold between Ronnie Ortiz-Magro and Jen Harley.

But it turns out another romance was fizzling out far away from the view of MTV cameras.

We can now confirm it is all over be Jenni “JWOWW” Farley and Roger Matthews after three years as husband and wife.

The reality star and her soon-to-be ex got married in October of 2015 and are the parents to a pair of kids, They have two children, Meilani Alexandra, 3, and Greyson Valor, 2.

According to multiple sources, Farley is the one who filed the divorce documents, citing “irreconcilable differences” on the papers that were entered into court on Wednesday, September 12, in Ocean County, New Jersey,

Neither Farley nor Mathews have commented on the split just yet.

But this is what the official complaint reads:

“The Plaintiff and the Defendant have irreconcilable differences which have caused the breakdown of the marriage for a period of at least six months which make it appear that the marriage should be dissolved and that there is no prospect of reconciliation.”

Farley and Mathews both appeared on numerous seasons of Jersey Shore, although it’s perhaps notable he did not join her for either season of this Family Vacation revival.

He remained at home with the children instead.

Farley and Mathews were last spotted together a mere two days ago being “tourists” in a video posted to the latter’s Instagram account.

Mathews’ current bio, meanwhile, may very well offer up a clue as to what has transpired between the pair…

… or at least who is to blame for their break-up.

“Good father. Horrible husband. Worst lover ever. 10 [feet] tall and bulletproof. Figuring life out,” it reads.

Could he have cheated?

In January of this year, Mathews shared a long message to his wife on Instagram —  but noted that she wouldn’t see it because she was filming the reality show, hinting that the separation caused by this filming may have led to their actual separation.

“Just the next chapter in our story. In case you missed it, it goes something like this,” he wrote.

“2010 two selfish assholes meet each other in a bar, the two begin to date and continue to party hard, it isn’t all cupcakes and unicorns, neither takes any sh-t and both are used to running the show. 3 years in they get engaged, still no sh-t taking and not a unicorn to be seen…

“a year later they have their first child out of wedlock just to piss off traditional people and party with Satan a bit more.

“2015 they get married and announce they are pregnant with a son, probably fought at the wedding.

“2015 to present they remain vigilant and defy the odds of reality tv, flawed personalities, alpha demeanors, hot tempers and an inferior penis and remain married while raising their two children to the best of their abilities while still butting heads over the dumbest sh-t.”

(Did he just write inferior penis?)

Continued Matthews here:

“2018 one has a mid life crisis and flies to Miami with old friends and leaves said husband for a really jacked dude from the club named Billy Bad Ass that can flex his pec muscles to the tune of Jingle Bells. Ok. I made that last part up.

“Blessed to have what we have and grateful for it. Mom makes much of that happen.”

And concluded Matthews:

“Love you Mom. 

“(She won’t even see this for a month cause they aren’t allowed cell phones so if you see her in the club please recite this entire post to her by memory, scream it as loud as you possibly can while dancing like a complete idiot to hold her attention and focus.)

Make of all that what you will.

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Jenni Farley Talks Miscarriage: "I Was a F-cking Mess"

Gym, Tan, Laundry?

Maybe that was all the cast of Jersey Shore talked about its first time around.

But a lot has changed over the years, and these MTV stars got far deeper than we ever imagined was possible on Thursday night’s installment of their rebooted series.

Specifically, Jenni “JWoww” Farley and Mike “The Situation” Sorrentino opened up on this episode about Jersey Shore Season 4, which was filmed in Italy.

It aired throughout the summer and fall of 2011 — and Farley admits now that she was in no shape at all to be having her life filmed at all times by cable network cameras back then.

And why not?

Because she had very recently suffered a miscarriage.

“Three to four weeks before Italy, my grandmother passed and me and Roger [Mathews] actually lost a baby … not a lot of people know,” the 32-year old said on air last night.

She went on to detail the effect that such a trauma had on her psyche.

 “They put me on medication because of it because I couldn’t handle life,” Jenni said, expounding as follows:

“The medication – it was like Xanax, it would take me down. The downers would make me so groggy, then I would start taking uppers. I segued right into Italy.

“I was a f-cking mess.”

Man. We’re so very sorry to hear that.

Few life events are as devastating as a miscarriage.

Farley and husband Mathews eventually welcomed their first child, a daughter named Meilani Alexandra, in 2014.

Two years later, they welcomed a son named Greyson Valor.

Prior to Meilani entering the world, however, Farley wrote candidly on her blog that she actually thought she had suffered a miscarriage for a second time.

(The first miscarriage was unknown to the public at the time.)

“I went to the bathroom, I saw blood and panicked,” wrote Farley in early 2014, adding:

“So many thoughts were running through my head. I felt a loss like no other when I thought that I was no longer pregnant.

“I whispered it to Roger and for that whole ride we just stared straight ahead and didn’t say a word. I went to bed that night in Nashville praying it was just a thing that happens.”

Thankfully, she was right.

Everything was okay this time around.

Jersey Shore: Family Vacation premiered last Thursday evening, giving fans an update on what Jenni, Mike and others in their crew have been up to.

In many ways, things are the same:

There’s still plenty of drinking, partying and arguing taking place.

In other ways, however, nothing is the same, most notably because there are now actual kids in the picture… kids that belong to these reality stars!

Who would have thought?!?

To watch Jersey Shore online and to get caught up on the happenings surrounding JWOWW and company, press Play on the video below:

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Editor’s Note:

We wish Farley the best and we’re so very sorry this happened to her.

We’re glad to hear that she has recovered from this tragedy and we think her two kids are SO cute!

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Giada De Laurentiis: Lying About When She Started Dating Shane Farley?

Having dodged romantical rumors in the past, Giada De Laurentiis may have seen this one coming.

The Italian chef is currently dating Shane Farley, a TV producer who’s worked on Rachel Ray, The Tony Danza Show and currently The FABLife.

Farley filed for divorce from personal trainer Jennifer Giamo this past April, and De Laurentiis finalized hers from Todd Thompson in September (their split was announced in December 2014).

According to Radar Online, Farley and Giamo’s proceedings have gotten ugly, with a judge issuing a temporary restraining order on April 24th, 2015.  The estranged couple are due back in court December 11th.

A source recently told Page Six that when De Laurentiis and Farley first started dating, the producer was “still very much married.”

This led a few media outlets to try and connect the dots on when the new couple actually began seeing one another.  De Laurentiis and Bobby Flay were in talks with Farley to launch a show in 2013, and Radar notes that De Laurentiis made several guest appearances on Rachel Ray in 2011.

Giamo’s lawyer, Barry S. Guaglardi told Page Six that his client found out about Farley’s new girlfriend through the tabloids.

“My client is devastated by what she has learned through the tabloids,” Giamo’s lawyer said. “‘Hurtful’ would be a mild characterization.”

De Laurentiis’ rep claims that the chef and Farley have only been dating since this summer.

“Giada and Shane are indeed dating but did not start dating until this past August.”

Any reports to the contrary were “outright false,” he added.

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