Showing posts with label Baltierra. Show all posts
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Monday, July 30, 2018

Tyler Baltierra Opens Up About Bipolar Disorder, Sticks It to Haters

Last week, Tyler Baltierra flaunted his weight loss by posting a thirst trap. But he’s been making improvements in more than just his physical health.


Tyler has bipolar disorder, which presents a number of mental health hurdles that he has had to overcome.


In a new post, he lays out his description of the highs and lows of bipolar disorder — and he has some choice words for his haters.



Tyler’s poetry about mental illness is not a new thing to Teen Mom fans, but this time, he is really spelling out how bipolar disorder puts him in a precarious state.


“Bi Polar is like dancing on the edge of a cliff,” Tyler writes ina  post shared to social media.


Bipolar disorder, formerly referred to as manic depression, involves oscillations between extremes.


“The good moods are full of endless euphoric adrenaline,” Tyler says.


Those good moods — manic episodes — can lead a person to act impulsively to follow their bliss without thought for repercussions.


“But the bad moods,” Tyler writes with poetic flare. “Cause a reclusive crash with an abusive rift.”




Tyler Baltierra Pens Poetry About Bipolar Disorder


The bad moods are when one is bogged down with depression and may feel that they’ll never again know happiness or joy.


Continuing his poem, Tyler writes that these bad moods take place “when there’s just too much emotions to go through & sift.”


“Which,” Tyler continues. “Makes you trip down a long hard fall when you slip.”


Though the highs of bipolar disorder feel better than the lows, both can be harmful to a person’s life.


“After you lose that grip once that adrenaline filled dance inevitably makes you tip,” Tyler explains.



After the poem, Tyler extended his message.


“I am not my diagnosis,” Tyler affirms.


That is an important distinction. With medication, he is still himself — but in a better state of mind.


Tyler’s positive statements continue: “I am in control of my perceptions and my reactions.”


Finally, he adds a tag: “#PoetryIsMyBrainsFreedom”




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Tyler chose to highlight positive responses that he has received, sharing them to Instagram with a message.


“Just a reminder to all the haters out there…” Tyler begins.


For the record, he does get a few very vocal, nasty trolls. They question whether he even has bipolar disorder and ask intrusive, invasive questions demanding that he “prove” his diagnosis.


“For every ONE negative ignorant opinion about my poetry,” Tyler announces. “There is more than DOUBLE the positive ones from these amazing people who are impacted by it”


The negative comments can turn very nasty. It’s good that he has some positive feedback, too.


“They’re the reason I share it in the first place,” Tyler explains. “So keep on hating or keep on scrolling, but that will NEVER change the fact that it’s touching people’s hearts & that’s what truly matters anyway.”


“To all of my supporters,” Tyler concludes. “I love you & can’t thank you enough, you are AMAZING.”




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Tyler posted a follow-up message regarding the hate that he receives.


“What’s ironic to me, is that everyone thinks I’m this depressed, unstable, ‘moping in my own self pity’ kind of guy.”


Tyler explains that they assume this “just because I have been venting my vulnerable feelings through words, but that’s just my escape.”


Self-expression through art is cathartic and healthy.


“It’s just a place to put them,” Tyler explains of his feelings. “So they have a different home to belong to instead of on the shoulders of my spirit through life.”


Tyler announces: “I’m actually the happiest I have been in a very long time!!!”



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Wednesday, July 25, 2018

Catelynn Lowell & Tyler Baltierra Check Into Rehab to Save Marriage (Report)


It looks like more hard times are ahead for Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra.


According to Radar Online, the Baltierras have checked into an in-patient couple-oriented therapy program in a last-ditch effort to save their marriage.


Catelynn has been to rehab several times over the course of the past two years, and while she"s made progress with her mental health, insiders say she and Tyler both continue to struggle daily.


Now, it seems they"ve decided that in order to make their marriage work, they"ll both need to address their mental health issues with the help of professionals.


Here"s what we know about the situation thus far:




1. Better Days


Catelynn lowell and tyler baltierra snuggles

For years, Tyler and Catelynn were the most stable couple in all of the Teen Mom franchise.



2. Hard Times


Catelynn lowell tyler baltierra on instagram

Sadly, a combination of difficult times, past trauma, and latent mental health issues all combined to put the Baltierras’ marriage to the test in a major way.



3. The Domino Effect


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Both Tyler and Catelynn have been diagnosed with various mental illnesses that are at least partially the result of their traumatic upbringings.



4. Tragedy Strikes


Catelynn lowell on teen mom

When Catelynn suffered a miscarriage, the tragedy triggered a downward spiral that prompted her to check into rehab multiple times.



5. A Double-Edged Sword


Tyler with catelynn

Tyler did his best to be a supportive spouse, but as is so often the case with this sort of thing, Catelynn’s illness and frequent absences eventually began to take a toll.



6. Stepping Up


Tyler and catelynn post therapy

Tyler took care of the couple’s daughter and visited Catelynn in Arizona as often as possible. But eventually, it all became too much …


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Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Tyler Baltierra Flaunts WILD Weight Loss in New Thirst Trap!

Teen Mom OG star Tyler Baltierra has shown off his insane weight loss in recent weeks, but he’s been working to do more than just shed some pounds.


He’s working hard to tone his body and regain his abs. And, as you can see below, it is clearly working.


There’s a fine line between sharing your body transformation progress and posting a thirst trap, and Tyler may have just crossed it.



It’s not #TransformationThursday yet, but clearly Tyler Baltierra was happy to share his extraordinary progress with his fans and followers.


“Five months ago, I was 208” pounds, Tyler Baltierra shares in the caption of the photo that he shared with Snapchat followers.


208 can be a lot or a little, depending upon your height and build. At only 5-foot-11, he was feeling a little to large at that size.


“… Today?” he continues. “163! #BOOM.”


That’s a 45 pound weight loss in only 5 months. That’s 9 pounds a month! And just look at the results:



Like we said, he isn’t just walking the line between a fitness pic and a thirst trap. He crossed it.


But why shouldn’t he? He’s really transformed his look this year.


His pecs and abs are looking top notch. His hard work is obviously paying off, and he has every right to flaunt the results to the world.


This is a great reminder that all of this is about more than just shedding some unwanted pounds.


Tyler has detailed his mental health struggles online. He’s also sharing his efforts to improve his physical health.



Beside the side-by-side ab pics below, Tyler writes: “1 month before (LEFT) & after! (RIGHT)”


“Finally making some progress on this goal of mine,” he proudly shares with his fans and followers.


“I think It’s important to document your journey,” Tyler says. “Even if you don’t ever decide to share it.”


For some people pursuing weight loss, the photos at the start of their efforts aren’t the sort that they would ever want to share. That’s fine.


But Tyler explains why it’s important to keep a personal photo journal.



What he’s describing here is what fitness folks refer to as personal accountability photos. Some share them daily.


“Because the days you don’t feel like putting in the work because either you don’t feel like you’re seeing results or you’re just feeling lazy as hell,” Tyler explains. 


He continues, saying that: “those are the days those pics come in handy to motivate & prove to yourself what you are doing & why!”


“40lbs down & only 2 months of consistently working out…BOOM!” he announces.


And that’s up to 45, now.


“For once in my life,” Tyler says. “I’m actually pumped & pretty proud of myself!”


He has a lot of reason to be proud!



Unfortunately, some naysayers are already claiming that all of this body-sculpting is going to lead Tyler Baltierra to leave Catelynn Lowell.


They say that Catelynn might enjoy Tyler’s new body now, but that we’re only a few months away from news of a separation.


Though working out can be a red flag for an affair or an impending breakup, it can also just mean that someone wants to improve their health or self esteem.


And while it’s true that one partner suddenly changing their lifestyle can lead to a split, that doesn’t mean that it always happens.


Tyler and Catelynn have been together since they were twelve years old. It’s hard to imagine that some abs, however nice, are going to break them up.


Besides, as we said, Catelynn really likes what Tyler’s done with himself.



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Friday, July 13, 2018

Catelynn Lowell & Tyler Baltierra: On the Brink of Divorce AGAIN?!


If you"re a Teen Mom OG viewer, you know that the past year has been tremendously difficult for Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra.


Both individually and as a couple, Catelynn and Tyler have faced a number of obstacles that might have driven a weaker marriage to collapse.


So it perhaps it should come as no surprise that they recently came to the brink of calling it quits.


Fans will recall the episode in which Catelynn first talked about divorce as a possibility.


Now, the Baltierras are speaking out about that particular rough patch, and while they were able to persevere, they say the situatin was every bit as painful as it looked:




1. Opening Up


Opening up

Catelynn and Tyler recently sat down with Dr. Oz and gave what’s been touted as the most honest interview of their careers.



2. Telling It All


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It’s tough to imagine that the Baltierras could have anything to hide after all these years in the spotlight, but apparently, they spilled unprecedented quantities of tea while speaking with the good doctor.



3. A Painful Recap


A painful recap

“When the series first launched, you guys were 16. It’s almost 10 years,” Oz says in a preview released today.



4. Tyler with Catelynn


Tyler with catelynn

“We’ve followed them through battles with depression and most recently, a heartbreaking miscarriage,” Oz adds.



5. Their Darkest Hour


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Fans will recall the tremendous emotional toll that Catelynn’s miscarriage took on both her and Tyler.



6. Put to the Test


Tyler and catelynn post therapy

Catelynn checked into rehab to be treated for PTSD and other mental health issues in the wake of her miscarriage. In the months that followed, her marriage was nearly driven to its breaking point.


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Thursday, July 12, 2018

Tyler Baltierra: Hell Yeah MTV Was Right to Fire Farrah Abraham!


Late last year, Farrah Abraham was fired from Teen Mom OG as a result of her refusal to stop performing in live online sex shows.


The decision met with a mixed response, as even some of Farrah"s staunchest critics thought MTV"s reasoning was questionable and had the effect of shaming both Abraham and other sex workers.


Tyler Baltierra is now speaking out on the network"s decision — and Farrah probably won"t care for what he has to say.


Get ready for another round in the ongoing feud between two of the Teen Mom franchise"s most outspoken stars:




1. Keeping It Real


Tyler baltierra gets honest on instagram

Tyler is known for speaking his mind on social media. And when it comes to Farrah, he’s never pulled any punches.



2. At It Again


Farrah abraham in a gold and black dress

Farrah and Tyler have clashed before, perhaps most notably when she posted a lengthy Instagram rant in which she claimed that Baltierra is gay and his wife, Catelynn Lowell, is a drug addict.



3. The Last Laugh


Catelynn lowell and tyler baltierra snuggles

Of course, the Baltierras have emerged victorious, as not only are they still employed, Farrah’s life has devolved into a public trainwreck in the months since she was fired.



4. The Arrest


Farrah abraham on insta

Farrah’s latest downward spiral began when she was arrested at the Beverly Hills Hotel last month after allegedly assaulting a staff member.



5. The Feud


Farrah drita split

Things got worse from there, as Abraham found herself embroiled in a very public feud with Mob Wives star Drita D’Avanzo.



6. Spiking the Football


Catelynn lowell tyler baltierra on instagram

So perhaps it should come as no surprise that Tyler had little sympathy for Farrah when he was asked about her while filming an interview with Dr. Oz this week …


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Monday, July 9, 2018

Tyler Baltierra: Why Fans Are Convinced He"s Leaving Catelynn Lowell!

Catelynn Lowell and Tyler Baltierra have always been and will always be THE Teen Mom couple.


Obviously, right?



They’ve been together since they were 12 years old, and they’re the only couple from the 16 and Pregnant days who are still together.


Sure, there’s been some ups and downs, and there were a few times it seemed like they weren’t going to make it, but they’ve managed to pull through.


They’re celebrating 14 years together this year, and since they’re both only 26 … it’s just pretty wild, you know?


But as difficult as this may be to believe, there are some people in the world who don’t want other people to be happy.


And that’s why there are several Teen Mom fans who are just absolutely certain that a Baltierra divorce is on the horizon.


See, both Catelynn and Tyler have had a rough, rough time lately.



After Catelynn gave birth to their daughter, Nova, back in 2015, she developed some pretty intense postpartum depression, and she’s been dealing with depression and anxiety ever since.


She’s had a hard time dealing with it, but when she got pregnant last fall only to suffer a miscarriage, things got so bad that she began contemplating suicide.


She checked into a treatment center to get some help, which was absolutely the right thing to do, but it did leave Tyler in a position of taking care of everything at home by himself.


And at the time, he had a whole lot to take care of.


There was little Nova, obviously, and his new children’s clothing business, but on top of that, he felt the need to keep an eye on his sister and her children since his father had just gone to rehab.



His sister ended up going to rehab a few months later, so it’s understandable that he felt that need.


And then, on top of all of that, he was dealing with the grief from the miscarriage, as well as his own mental health problems — it was around this time when he was diagnosed as bipolar.


Honestly, it’s amazing they made it throught that rough patch at all, especially since there was talk from both of them that maybe they weren’t right for each other anymore.


But they’re still together, because “in sickness and health” and all that, and although Tyler’s been making some questionable comments about how unhappy he’s been, it does seem like they’re going strong.


Tyler’s been going strong himself in a different way — after losing weight a few months ago, he’s been working on bulking up.


He’s shared shirtless selfies to document his progress, and over the weekend, he shared a before and after pic: the left photo is what he looked like a month ago, and on the right is what he looks like now.



So he looks really, really great, right?


But more important, he feels great, too.


“Finally making some progress on this goal of mine,” he wrote in his caption for the photo. “I think it’s important to document your journey, even if you don’t ever decide to share it.”


“Because the days you don’t feel like putting in the work because you don’t feel like you’re seeing results or you’re just feeling lazy as hell, those are the days those pics come in handy to motivate & prove to yourself what you are doing & why!”


He explained that this new photo is the result of “40 lbs down & only 2 months of working out.”


He also added that “For once in my life I’m actually pumped & pretty proud of myself!”


So what does any of that have to do with his marriage?



According to several of Tyler’s followers, the issue is that Catelynn doesn’t seem to be getting into fitness like he is. And that, of course, is grounds for divorce.


“Why do I feel like he’s gonna get his body riiiight & leave Catelynn…..” one person asked.


“Amid all these divorce rumors you think that you’d be posting tons of you and your wife still in love!” another person told him. “Sadly we’ll most likely see in a few months that you guys are indeed separating. That’s usually how it runs.”


One of his followers speculated that “Soon he will find himself someone that loves themselves and will actually be happy in a relationship that doesn’t keep dragging him down.”


Another put that sentiment in much simpler terms with “Tyler gonna be picking up a new hottie soon.”



Some people were especially cruel about it, like this jackass that wrote “Now GET A HOT mentally stable awesome new girlfriend, man you’re wasting your life with this chick.”


And that’s not even touching all the people who insisted that Catelynn is a “fat cow” who should be the one working out instead of Tyler.


OK, look, all the divorce rumors aside, is it honestly so hard to believe that maybe he just actually loves her?


That regardless of the changes he makes to his own body, he can still appreciate hers, and perhaps even be attracted to it?


Maybe they will get divorced, and if they do, it would probably be more about them growing apart and less about his new muscles.


Either way … can we maybe focus a little more on Tyler’s accomplishment here and a little less on Catelynn’s weight?



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Friday, July 6, 2018

Tyler Baltierra Details Mental Illness in Powerful New Poem

Teen Mom OG star Tyler Baltierra struggles with his mental health, and has to defend himself and explain to fans that his mental illness doesn’t make him a bad parent.


He’s absolutely right. He has coping mechanisms, and one of those is expressing himself through poetry.


In a powerful and evocative new poem, he explains what it’s like to endure the fog of depression and anxiety on a daily basis.



On Instagram, Tyler Baltierra shared a somewhat freeform poem that, at first, might resemble prose.


“Living with this depression & anxiety causes hurt.” Tyler’s poem begins. “Its brain is like an alien stuck in a foreign body.”


A lot of people can feel that way. Particularly those who endure a chronic battle with an illness.


“That body just keeps getting up,” Tyler continues. “it keeps putting on these clothes & it goes about the day doing whatever is required.”


It sounds like he is describing an empty routine that feels devoid of meaning.


“But It barely eats,” Tyler laments. “It’s always weak & it’s always tired.”



Many feel betrayed by their flesh prisons, and Tyler is no exception.


“But I’m so confused,” Tyler writes. “I just don’t get it, because if it’s so weak & it’s so tired, then why can’t it sleep when it’s time for its mind to retire.”


Insomnia is a special kind of torment that adds insult to injury for those enduring the chronic fatigue that can accompany depression.


“It’s like its mind is this tire that keeps spinning in circles & it gets lost every time it takes a spin while driving on that thin of a wire.”


By this point, you have no doubt noted that retire and wire rhyme with some earlier words. There’s a lot of that going on.


“But even though it lacks the ability to see what is required,” Tyler says. “That doesn’t mean It’s not allowed to desire the love & compassion every other human being desires.”



“It feels like it’s a conspire to not have known this information prior,” Tyler writes.


He means a conspiracy, but he’s using poetic license to play with the word.


“Because now all these thoughts in its brain caused by all these demons inside won’t stop talking with such an evil tone that’s dire…”


To be clear, he’s not talking about delusions of demons. He’s talking about the horror of intrusive thoughts.


(On their own, intrustive thoughts are supposed to be prompts to do things that we don’t want to do, so that our horrified internal reactions reinforce our resistance to those impulses. Mental illness can make that much worse)


Tyler writes: “& that tone distracts it from ever being able to see the positivity in this life it could actually acquire.”


That’s depression for you.



Tyler Baltierra ends his poem with the tag: “#PoetryIsMyBrainsFreedom.”


The Teen Mom OG star has opened up about his mental health struggles in the past.


Recently, he shared a heartbreaking poem that he wrote while battling suicidal ideation after getting the news of his father, Butch Baltierra, once again going to jail.


A person’s parent’s screw-ups, as a parent or as a human being, can haunt their children well into adulthood.


Tyler has explained that he shares all of this, not only because expressing himself through poetry is therapeutic, but because he hopes to help people.


Sometimes, the most powerful thing that you can do for someone is to make them understand that they are truly not alone.



The comments under Tyler’s poem were filled with expressions of support and sympathy.


A number of followers mentioned that they very personally understood his experiences.


Others recommended CBD oil, which they say can alleviate anxiety and depression like marijuana without producing the high.


It is always heartwarming to see people come together with solutions that worked for them, but not every solution is universal.



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Wednesday, June 27, 2018

Tyler Baltierra Claps Back at Haters: My Mental Health Doesn"t Make Me a Bad Parent!

Earlier this week, Teen Mom OG star Tyler Baltierra shared a poem about his heartbreaking suicide attempt. It must have taken a lot of courage for him to share such an intimate piece of self-expression.


Unfortunately, some people had the nerve to use this opportunity to suggest that he and Catelynn shouldn’t be allowed to be parents because of their mental health.


Tyler took to Twitter to clap back against this very dangerous line of thinking.



One Twitter user, an Instagram model whose claim to fame is having been on Bad Girls Club, decided to ask a not-so-innocent question about Tyler and Catelynn.


“Sad that him and his wife are struggling with depression and bi polar disorder,” Danielle says.


Unfortunately, she did not stop there.


Tyler and Catelynn have her sympathies, “but is that really a healthy environment for a child to grow up in?” she asks.


She also does that thing that some people do when they have a decent following on social media and would rather be able to say that they are “starting a conversation” than voicing an opinion.


“[I don’t know,] thoughts people?” she asks, as if her entire tweet were just an innocuous question about Catelynn’s hairstyle.






Tyler saw this and, very understandably, felt the need to speak out.


“So everyone who has a mental health issue shouldn’t be allowed to have children?” he tweeted.


You can really feel his righteous indignation.


Tyler continued, describing parenting as getting to “experience the most beautiful thing this life can give you.”


Not everyone will necessarily agree that parenting, with its many ups and downs, qualifies for that lofty superlative … but we’ll let it slide for the moment.


“It’s the same,” Tyler continues. “As telling someone who has diabetes or any manageable condition, that they shouldn’t have kids.”


Sadly, people have probably made arguments along those lines, too. No, wait, people have definitely made arguments along those lines. And it’s horrifying.


Tyler makes his feelings clear, writing: “I highly disagree with that!”



Tyler was not the only one who strenuously objects to the notion that people being treated for their mental health are disqualified from being parents.


One Twitter user replied to the original tweet: “Wow really?? I have anxiety and manic depression as well! I’ve raised two healthy sons to adulthood! Shame on you for that statement! I’ve had this since age 20! I’m 44 now!”


Yep!


“This is the problem with most people,” another person tweeted. “If they have never experienced it they can’t understand. I’m raising 3 children while I suffer from anxiety. I’m a GREAT mom and they are very well taken care of! I am on medication and I take care of myself so I can take care of them!”


Many mental illnesses are totally treatable. If you argue that someone’s depression makes them a bad parent, you sound like a sleezy divorce lawyer.


Another tweets: “Were you not just begging twitter to pay your rent a few months ago? Worry about yourself & not the mental health of others.. btw Tyler is a WONDERFUL dad.”


Wow. Somebody brought some reciepts to the roast.


Another wrote, more simply: “Just because they struggle doesn’t mean [they’re] bad parents.”



Others simply couldn’t believe this woman’s audacity to ask the question.


“Why in 2018 is mental health still being stigmatised?!” another tweeter asks. “Why should people feel ashamed for having an illness that is out with their control?! This needs to STOP!”


Another decided that Danielle needed a little more roasting.


This person tweeted: “At least their kids can look back and see that their parents had positive impact in life and on tv. What are your kids gna see when they google your name? Bad girls clubs clips bahaha now thats sad.”


People who live in glass houses shouldn’t throw shade.



Others, however, defended the question … sort of.


“I don’t think it’s a bad question,” another fan tweeted. “You have to truly understand that some are completely unaware of how it feels to live with a mental illness. Educate those whom do not understand.”


That’s a good point, honestly — sometimes, people have to ask questions to learn. Even if those questions have horrifying implications.


Speaking of horrifying thoughts, however, some people went above and beyond when agreeing with Danielle’s question.


One person tweeted: “Selective breeding, we do it with animals, why not humans…only way to stabilize society and weed out illness.”


Let’s just hope that this person is, like, 12 and still coming to grasp with right and wrong. Because, and I hate Nazi comparisons, but … that is one scary tweet.



Obviously, if someone is a bad parent, either abusive or neglectful or otherwise unable to give their child love and support, the child needs a better home where they can be safe and healthy.


But mental illness — in addition to being treatable — does not disqualify someone from being an amazing parent. It’s just a thing that they have to deal with.


In fact, that personal struggle can make them more empathetic to a child’s potential struggles.


In the mean time, the world has no shortage of truly awful parents who don’t have any mental illness. Being a terrible person is a character trait, not an ailment.


Good for Tyler for sticking up for himself, his wife, and for every other parent with mental health struggles.



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