Showing posts with label Sexuality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sexuality. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 17, 2018

Paris Jackson Confirms Her Sexuality: I Came Out at 14!

Earlier this year, Paris Jackson and Cara Delevingne were spotted locking lips, which seemed to confirm that the two were in some sort of relationship.


Recently, a fan asked Paris if she was bi, and Paris confirmed her sexuality.


But as far as Paris is concerned, she already did her official coming out — at 14.



Paris Jackson did an impromptu Q&A with some Instagram fans.


One fan asked: “Are you bi?”


“That’s what you guys call it so I guess,” Paris replied, adding: “But who needs labels?”


If by you guys, she means English-speakers, she’s right, though there are a number of overlapping labels that people who feel attraction to multiple genders use.


Bisexual is the most common and most recognizable of those labels — but, as Paris suggests, not everyone is a big fan of labeling themselves.



Paris was not a huge fan of how that Q&A was covered on Tiwtter.


“How many times,” Paris asked. “Have i publicly referred to the community as ‘my fellow LGBTQ+?"”


“Like even on stage,” Paris writes. “I’ve been a part of the community for years.”


Paris protests, writing: “i even mentioned having crushes on girls when i was 8 in a magazine before.”


“i’ve been caught kissing girls in public,” Paris reminds the world. “This is not news. …”


“EVERYONE HAS KNOWN FOR YEARS,” Paris wrote in all caps. “I CAME OUT WHEN I WAS 14, WTF?!”



As is very understandable for a young, free-spirited soul who has grown up in the spotlight as Michael Jackson’s daughter, Paris became increasingly frustrated with the coverage of her “coming out.”


“You’re 6 years late on this,” Paris wrote in response to multiple articles.


“You’re annoying,” Paris wrote in reply to several other tweets.


“i said this multiple times, ages ago,” Paris wrote. “This isn’t news.”


As a model, as a celebrity, and as a member of the Jackson family, anything that she says or does — or, in this case, confirms — is going to be news to a lot of people.



When Perez Hilton tweeted about the story, mentioning that Paris was upset that people seem to forget that she’s bisexual, Paris objected.


“You’re labeling,” Paris tweeted at Perez.


Perez can sometimes be a provocateur — sometimes, his phrasing seems aimed to prompt negative responses about his subject matter.


In this case, his tweet seemed to be in earnest. Paris’ issue is with him referring to her as bisexual even though she did acknowledge that, well, bisexual is the term (or a term) that applies to her.


That said, Paris is definitely entitled to feel grumpy — especially about media coverage and especially about something so personal.



Some people are frustrated by labels.


For one thing, it’s not uncommon for people to change labels during life and later feel that they had boxed themselves in.


Paris in particular is a very, very free-spirited person who likely feels that sexuality labels divide people (though we don’t mean to put words into her mouth).


Others feel that labels provide clarity and help people to recognize that they are not alone and that there are other people who feel exactly how they do.


Paris has every right to label herself precisely as she wishes, or to not label herself at all.


As she goes after different entertainment news media’s tweets, however, she may want to put herself in their shoes and consider that the headlines that fuel her ire were intended to be positive and affirming.



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Saturday, March 31, 2018

Alyson Stoner Pens Emotional Essay About Her Sexuality, Moves Readers to Tears

Alyson Stoner, a former Disney Channel and movie star, has penned a very personal and extremely powerful essay for Teen Vogue.


Titled “How I Embraced My Sexual Identity,” the piece chronicles Stoner’s journey to bisexuality, although we should note that Stoner never used this term.



In the essay, the 24-year old never puts any sort of label or definition on this path or on her conclusion, simply writing that she realizes she’s now attracted to men and women.


The revelation of her preferences started when Stoner found herself “mesmerized and intimidated” upon attending a dance workshop and meeting her female instructor.


“After I dizzied myself from doing knee spins, she walked toward me to correct my form,” Stoner writes for Teen Vogue, adding:


“My heart raced wildly and my body grew hot. Was I nervous to fail in front of an expert? Was I breathing heavily from being out of shape?


“Her smile was the most electrifying thing I’d ever seen.”


Following this class, Stoner texted her mom, to whom she is very close. This is what the text read at the time:


“I met a woman today, I’m not sure who she is or what I’m feeling, but I think she’s going to be in my life for a very long time.”



Stoner has appeared in movies such as Step Up and Cheaper by the Dozen, along with Disney shows like The Suite Life of Zack and Cody.


As actress-turned-singer got to know the dance instructor better, she struggled with her feelings that weren’t “quite sisterly or platonic.”


She was confused.


“I realized I had never fantasized about a guy this way, nor really ever felt comfortable dating guys,” she explains, elaborating as follows:


“Come to think of it, I stared at women’s bodies more than anything. But wasn’t that just societal conditioning or the unattainable beauty standards that fuel comparison and objectification?


“I refused to entertain other possibilities.”


Still, despite not being sure what was going on, Stoner and this other woman began spending a great deal of time together.



One evening, the pair made dinner and watched Orange is the New Black together and…


“We vented and supported each other. Then cuddled. Then kissed and kissed some more.”


This is when Stoner realized:


“OK, we were in a relationship. I fell in love with a woman.”


It’s unclear at what age this happened, but Stoner admits to attending therapy for years in order to figure herself out.


‘In its purest sense, I felt awakened, more compassionate and like my truest self,” she writes.


“She strengthened and inspired me, creating a space for me to discover myself without judgment. We were an example of true love.”




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Stoner had “misconceptions” about the LGBT community, she says, adding that she wondered how this personal revelation would affect her job.


‘Some people in the industry warned me that I’d ruin my career, miss out on possible jobs, and potentially put my life in danger if I ever came out.


‘My dream and all I’d worked tirelessly for since the age of 6 was suddenly at risk by my being . . . true to myself.”


She prayed on it. She battled internally.


But, in the end, she could no longer deny how she felt and what she believes.


“I, Alyson, am attracted to men, women, and people who identify in other ways,” she concludes.


“I can love people of every gender identity and expression. It is the soul that captivates me.


“It is the love we can build and the goodness we can contribute to the world by supporting each other’s best journeys.”


So well said all around.


We salute you, Alyson Stoner.



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Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Marco Rubio Says Aaron Hernandez"s Sexuality Didn"t Make Him a Murderer

Aaron Hernandez’s self-hate for his alleged gay secret is NOT why he turned violent — so says Marco Rubio. We got the Florida senator out on Capitol Hill … and asked what he made of the recent “Aaron Hernandez Uncovered”…


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Wednesday, March 7, 2018

Demi Lovato Dishes on "Fluid" Sexuality... and More!

Demi Lovato is not shy about sharing photos of her massive cleavage online.


And, as she’s made more and more clear in a handful of recent interviews, the singer isn’t shy about admitting that this cleavage is no longer reserved for the opposite sex, either.


If a woman wants to fondle it, hey… Lovato might be down!



“I’m very fluid, and I think love is love,” Lovato says in the new issue of InStyle, adding very simply:


“You can find it in any gender. I like the freedom of being able to flirt with whoever I want.”


The artist, of course, famously dated Wilmer Valderrama for six years.


She was then linked to MMA fighter Guilherme “Bomba” Vasconcelos.


But just because Lovato is yet to officially date a female, the artist has said many times now that she’s bisexual and would consider it.


“I am open to human connection,” Demi said in her YouTube documentary, “Simply Complicated,” adding very basically in this video:


“I love who I love.”



Right now, however, Lovato is single. She is not actively loving anyone.


But this doesn’t mean she’s sad or regretful or lonely or anything like that.


“I’m not suffering because I’m alone,” she tells the magazine, explaining her evolution as follows:


“There were many years I was in a relationship and I wasn’t learning about myself. Now I’m learning about what I like, what I need, and what I want.”


In other words: Demi has matured.


She’s just had to do it at times in the spotlight, which can be a challenge for anyone, let alone someone with a history of drug abuse and who has been diagnosed as bipolar.


“You have to speak out about stuff. You have to use your voice for good,” the star says.


This is certainly something Lovato has done, getting very deep and very personal with how she formerly abused her body.



She continues:


“I didn’t have anybody who was doing that when I was younger. I grew up in the era of really, really skinny celebrities. That was the look.


“And it was cool to be seen partying. Drugs were glamorized, and when I was 12 or 13, nobody [I looked up to] was talking about mental illness.


“Nobody was talking about eating disorders. Nobody was talking about cutting. I wanted somebody for my little sister to look up to.


“I took on that role because I knew it was important.”


We’ve said so many times that we admire Lovato for her candor and the way she has handled these kinds of struggles.


But it really can’t be said enough, can it?



Demi also appreciates her status as a role model.


She has often answered questions from fans and has always encouraged them to turn to her with any issues to which she can relate.


“They’re very emotional. A lot of times people use that opportunity to dump their problems on me because they don’t know who else to talk to,” Lovato says of her meet and greets, concluding:


“They show me their cuts. I’ve had people come up to me and say, ‘I was going to kill myself until I got this meet and greet.’ And you’re just like, ‘What?’


“Sometimes I’ll meditate afterwards. Sometimes I’ll just kind of breathe. I used to sage myself. It’s very heavy.”


We can only imagine.


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Thursday, February 22, 2018

Farrah Abraham Says MTV Bullied Her Over Sexuality, She"s Fighting Back for Her Daughter

Farrah Abraham says she’s been bullied and ganged up on by MTV … and the main reason she’s suing is because she doesn’t want her daughter to ever be treated that way. Farrah was in L.A. Wednesday with her daughter, Sophia — and a couple…


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Friday, December 22, 2017

Rain Brown Responds to Gay Rumors: I"ve Accepted My Sexuality

Back in October, Alaskan Bush People star Rain Brown was praised for her pro-equality message that she shared on Instagram.


Some fans, however, wondered if her message about LGBT rights might be a little personal. And, rudely, a couple of fans boldly asked Rain if she’s gay.


Though she had every right to ignore the questions, Rain decided to come clean and answer them.



Like the rest of her family, Rain Brown has a lot on her plate. 


Since no, Ami Brown’s cancer wasn’t miraculously cured despite our hopes and best wishes, she’s still contending with her mother’s battle with lung cancer.


That’s hard for anyone to deal with, especially a girl who’s only just turned 15.


Reportedly, the Brown family is filming Season 8 in Colorado. We don’t know how much they’ve filmed — possibly just a promo or two — but filming a reality series is no joke.


Oh, and with Rain’s Instagram account having reached over 45,000 followers in just a few months, she’s dealing with a lot of social media pressures as both a teenage girl and her family’s de facto spokesperson.



It’s through social media that some people decided to give her a hard time by grilling her about her sexuality.


Folks, straight-up asking somebody their sexual orientation is fine sometimes, awkward at other times, and sexual harassment in other contexts.


When total strangers are asking a 15-year-old girl her sexual orientation, that’s seriously crossing some boundaries.


Apparently, Rain’s short hair, or perhaps the fact that she calls her fans “rainbows,” or perhaps her recent message about equality, led some fans to wonder about her sexuality, which is no one’s business by Rain’s.


We don’t know if they expected Rain to answer, but she did.



Rain shared an optimistic post, as she often does, and a fan straight-up commented:


“Are you gay?”


Though we’d have absolutely understood if Rain had ignored the comment, she decided to reply with a very direct answer:


“No, I’m straight.”


Rain didn’t stop there, though.


“And I call my fans rainbows because my name is Rain, but you do you boo.”


She added to that a kissy face emoji. Some people would add that as an insult, but coming from Rain, we think that it’s to show that there are no hard feelings over the question.



On another photo, a different fan commented:


“I wonder if [Rain] has accepted her sexuality yet?”


(Folks, if you want to speculate over somebody’s sexuality, do it in private or not at all — not on that person’s Instagram page)


Rain replied:


“I’m straight … so yeah, I have.”


That’s a polite reply but we believe that we detect an air of frustration.



To be clear, the sexuality question is inappropriate, not because gay people are somehow inherently inappropriate, but because it’s nobody’s beeswax. Also, it can constitute harassment.


She shouldn’t be faced with these questions, folks.


Not just because plenty of LGBT+ folks don’t feel comfortable coming out at 15 (if they’re even aware), but because it’s straight-up inappropriate.


We understand the desire to know as much as possible about the stars you admire.


And, quite frankly, a lot of television is starved for decent LGBT+ representation. Reality television is definitely included.


But instead of asking stars to come out — whether they’re actually gay or not — how about if we all instead mind our own business?


Especially when the reality stars in question are, you know, 15.



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Thursday, October 12, 2017

Vicki Gunvalson: Tamra Judge Brings Up Eddie"s Sexuality, Not Me!

Vicki Gunvalson and Tamra Judge’s contentious relationship is pretty central to The Real Housewives of Orange County. These feuding frenemies are former friends, but sometimes that’s how life works out.


One major gripe that Tamra has with Vicki is that she blames Vicki for spreading rumors that her husband, Eddie Judge, is gay. That storyline has actually become pretty controversial.


Vicki is trying to clear the air — not with Tamra or Eddie, but more with the general public.



As we mentioned, the rumors about Eddie Judge’s sexuality and sexual history, which have come up repeatedly on The Real Housewives of Orange County, are controversial.


Not just on the show, but with outside audiences.


Mostly because sexuality rumors are never nice and can come across as homophobic. If you appear to be teasing someone with something just to hurt their feelings, one assumes that you believe that thing to be bad.


One can argue that it’s just Tamra who flips out about it and that Vicki and others only repeat the rumor because it elicits that reaction, but no matter how you look at it, the allegation of gayness is being used as a weapon.


Another sticking point for some viewers is that, as too often happens, the “Eddie is gay” narrative erases the existence of bisexuals. Plenty of people who are married to another gender had had same-sex relationships in the past. That doesn’t mean that they “used to be gay.” That’s bisexuality.


But while Tamra doesn’t come out of this looking great simply because the rumor seems to get under her skin more than it should, the lingering storyline of this rumor has reflected poorly on Vicki Gunvalson, who is often seen as its architect.


So now Vicki is out doing what looks a lot like damage control.



In a very, very lengthy interview with TooFab, Vicki Gunvalson addresses the Eddie Judge rumors and also speaks directly to the LGBTQ community.


Vicki describes how the rumor came to be passed around the RHOC stars — and says that Tamra seemed to be the one who brought it up.


“This started in 2011 when Tamra was dating him. So this isn’t anything new Tamra just started to bring up.”


Tamra, she says, brought it up when the Housewives were in Ireland.


“So we get on the bus and it’s pitch black out. I got my hat on and everyone has their earphones in and then Tamra goes up to Kelly in the midst of other things prior to that happening on the bus, and the cameras were off, down under the bus. No cameras were up.”


Well, at least it was off-camera.


“Tamra says, ‘Has Vicki ever told you that Eddie is gay?’ Now, why in the middle of the night would Tamra ask that of Kelly? Kelly shook her head because we have talked about that rumor privately but never on camera.”


Vicki says that she and Tamra had discussed the rumor back when Eddie and Tamra were dating — that Tamra had been anxious and had spoken to Vicki about it. (Remember that they used to be friends)


To Vicki, if they’re happy together, she doesn’t see that Eddie’s sexual history matters.


“I’m glad she found Eddie, they seem extremely happy. She’s the one who has made this a bigger deal than it needs to be. Because I don’t care.”



Vicki does say that having people discuss and question Eddie’s personal history is something that he signed up for because he married a reality star.


“Our past is our past and we cannot change our past. So if Eddie had a past of being with another man then that was his choice. He’s at a place now where he’s married.”


There are untold millions of men who are married with that kind of history, so it’s a plausible scenario. The best rumors always sound plausible.


“So if you’re married and you have a past that you don’t want to talk about or that you don’t want your wife’s friends to talk about, then that means there’s something more to it. He’s on a reality TV show.”


That argument wouldn’t fly with the child of a reality star — nobody asks to be born, and if we could all pick our parents, the Gates family and the Zuckerbergs would have many, many more children than they do.


“He married a reality star. He knew what he was getting himself into.”


We might not agree that anything and everything becomes fair game for reality stars, but we’d argue that Eddie shouldn’t be surprised that it’s come up.


As for the scene where Eddie’s supposed sexual past was brought up by Tamra’s friend Ricky on camera, Vicki says that it was a surprise to her and was not in any way orchestrated.


“The producers had nothing to do with this. We were sitting at a table and we were talking like old times. It was not orchestrated, there was no script. We don’t have a script.”


Well, not having a script doesn’t mean that things aren’t orchestrated. But we’re willing to take Vicki at her word that the producers didn’t tell them to have that conversation.



And Vicki addresses LGBTQ fans of The Real Housewives of Orange County, saying that she absolutely does not consider insinuations that someone has a gay past as being an insult.


“Gay is not less than. If you are married to a woman and you are a man and you have had a past… deal with it! No, I don’t dislike gays, I don’t dislike lesbians. My best friend’s daughter is a lesbian, she just got married. I don’t care.”


That’s not the best way to phrase that, but sure. We genuinely do not believe that Vicki Gunvalson is a homophobe.


“[Tamra is] taking this and twisting it to make her feel like a victim. Eddie is a great man. I don’t really give a crap what his past is.”


Well, that’s how Tamra gets part of her storyline. It can’t all be about trying to help Shannon Beador lose weight.


“As long as he loves Tamra and he’s loyal to her and monogamous to her as his wife, I’m good because I care about Tamra. I don’t know what she feels about me, but I care about Tamra and I never meant for this to be hurtful.”


And she has a message for the show’s LGBTQ fandom.


“To the LGBTQ fans that watch the show, I adore you. I love you.”


If we had to summarize all of this, we’d guess that we’d say that Vicki Gunvalson was enjoying the Eddie Judge rumors when they were getting reactions from Tamra Judge.


But Vicki has realized, we think, that the backlash over it from viewers is doing more harm than the rumor itself ever could. So, like we said, she’s trying to do damage control.



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Monday, August 14, 2017

Aaron Carter Thanks Fans for Support Over His Sexuality ... Then Deletes, Reactivates Social Media Accounts

Coming out is hard to do, but it it sounds like Aaron Carter’s life has mostly taken turns for the better since he came out as bisexual.


It hasn’t all been perfect — just today, he deactivated and then reactivated his social media accounts.


Before that, though, the “Aaron’s Party” singer spent the weekend living as his authentic self and celebrating



His coming out may have cost him his girlfriend Madison Parker, but good riddance if she couldn’t accept him for who he is.


Aaron Carter appeared at and even performed at a gay restaurant called Hamburger Mary’s (it’s actually part of a chain of LGBT-friendly restaurants) in Florida.


It apparently went very well.


Aaron Carter took to Twitter on Saturday to express how moved he was by his warm reception so soon after his coming out.


“I was in shock!!”


Remember, Aaron Carter’s had his share of inner demons, but he’s also struggled with fan responses to him in recent years.\


Now that he’s being more honest about his sexuality but also his eating disorder, hopefully Aaron can live his best life.


Living honestly can help abate a lot of personal problems — and maybe people are less likely to be harsh about him now that they know what’s going on with him.


Apparently that wasn’t a problem at Hamburger Mary’s.


“It was an emotional night in a lot of ways.”


But we have more than his social media reaction to go on.



TMZ reports details of Aaron Carter’s performance at the restaurant.


“I just want to thank you for all your love and support in the LGBT community and my announcement. It means a lot.”


A closeted LGBT person is essentially living apart from their entire community, so he’s feeling a sense of connection and family that he may have never known that he was missing.


It’s understandable that he was in shock.


He repeated his coming out while at Hamburger Mary’s.


“Yes, I am a bisexual man.”


Sometimes a lot of bi folks feel that people don’t say that enough.


You’ve probably noticed that bisexual television characters like the dance around the label instead of using it, saying that they “like hot people” or are “flexible” instead of using a very convenient label that’s just … right there for them to use.


Aaron also evaluated some of the men in the audience, going over them one-by-one with varying levels of praise.


“That motherf—er right there is gorgeous. You’re gorgeous. … He’s kind of cute.”



Good for Aaron for embracing his identity in such a public manner, you know?


“It is what it is. I am who I am.”


In true Taylor Swift style, Aaron sang a song about his ex, Madison Parker.


“I wrote this song about my ex girlfriend that just left, so bye Felicia. This song is about her.”


Aaron got very emotional, even breaking down in tears.


“I just wanted to say thank you for believing in me, guys.”


He also had something to say for the haters, or at least the non-fans:


“Even if you don’t, I still love you.”


That’s a very healthy, positive attitude.


And, for the most part, that’s been reciprocated.



Unfortunately, Aaron Carter saw some other reactions to his recent appearances that were … less kind.


Though he thanked fans over Twitter for their support, he also shared a screencap of negative comments.


Some rude people referred to him as “painful to listen to” when he did an interview.


They were commenting and perhaps assuming that he wouldn’t see what they had to say.


In fact, after sharing how hurt he was, Aaron Carter shared that he was going to be staying off of social media for a while … and then deactivated both his Twitter and Instagram accounts.


He did reactivate them (literally while I was writing this post), which sounds like a good idea, since he gets so much love and support from fans that way.


We can only hope that he’ll keep his social media up and running, though a farewell tweet of his from before he took down social media suggested that he might be away for a few months.


We hope not … but he should do whatever’s best for his general well-being.



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Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Blake Shelton -- I"m A Fan Of Ty Herndon ... His Sexuality is Irrelevant (VIDEO)

Blake Shelton says good music, not sexuality, triumphs in Nashville. Blake and Gwen Stefani were leaving Bed Bath & Beyond Wednesday in the San Fernando Valley when our photog asked about Ty Herndon, a veteran country singer who came out 2…


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Friday, May 6, 2016

Shay Mitchell Gives Surprising Answer About Her Sexuality

Shay Mitchell sort of has a secret.


But she’s not about to keep it.



The actress, who has portrayed Emily on Pretty Little Liars since its pilot episode, is featured on the latest cover of Cosmopolitan.


Because she has millions and millions of followers across her various social media accounts, the interview at first talks about the way in which she crafts her online image.


“My Instagram is like an art gallery – no blurry photos,” she explains.


“Come to Snapchat and see it all being made… Instagram is the appetizer. Snapchat is the meal.”


Okay then.


Along similar lines, the magazine then gets to the main course of its Q&A.


Because the 29-year-old plays a lesbian on Pretty Little Liars, folks often ask about her own sexuality.


But Michell legitimately isn’t sure how to answer this sensitive question.


“Right now I’m dating a guy,” she says, but…


“I don’t know what it’s going to be in three years. You love who you love: black, white, polka-dot. That’s what my dad always said.


“I’m never going to label myself. I could be 50 and dating a woman and then what? I said I was straight and now I’m not?”



With the long-term future of the drama up in the air, Mitchell is also honest about her career.


It may not always center on acting.


“I’d rather have a company,” she says. “I don’t want to be dependent on a call from my agent – taking projects I’m not OK with because I need to.


“To be honest, winning an Oscar is not one of my goals.”


Sort of nice to hear such honest answers, isn’t it?


We won’t include Mitchell in the following rundown just yet, but maybe one of these days.


Thursday, October 15, 2015

Selena Gomez: Yes, I"ve Questioned My Sexuality

Remember last year? When a photo of Selena Gomez and Cara Delevingne bathing together went viral?


Remember the chatter at the time? That perhaps Gomez and Delevingne were in a same-sex relationship?



Gomez sure does, but she says in a new interview that the sexuality rumors never bothered her at all. Quite the opposite, in fact.


“Honestly, I loved it. I didn’t mind it,” Selena tells PrideSource. “Especially because they weren’t talking about other people in my life for once, which was wonderful.”


Yes, that’s a clear reference to Justin Bieber and all the times Selena has been asked about her famous ex-boyfriend.


Gomez went on to praise Delevingne as “open and fun and adventurous,” responding to a question about her sexual preferences in a surprising manner.


Has she ever questioned which gender she likes best?


“Oh, I think everybody does, no matter who they are,” she admits.


“I do, yeah, of course. Absolutely. I think it’s healthy to gain a perspective on who you are deep down, question yourself and challenge yourself; it’s important to do that.”



Gomez even confessed that she’d choose Suki Waterhouse to portray her on-screen lesbian love interest if given the opportunity.


Can someone please give Selena that opportunity?


There’s a movie we’d totally line up to watch!

Monday, September 14, 2015

Tom Hardy (Perfectly) Cuts Off Question About His Sexuality

Think Tom Hardy lip-sync videos are awesome?


Okay, fine. They are.


But the following Tom Hardy video is pretty darn awesome as well.


During a press conference at the Toronto International Film Festival, a reporter from a LGBT outlet brought up an interview Hardy gave years ago to the magazine Attitude.


"Your sexuality seems a bit more ambiguous," the reporter asks in this video. "Do you find it hard for celebrities to talk to media about their sexuality?"


After asking what "on earth" the man was talking about, Hardy quite simply answer no… he does not find it hard for celebrities to talk about their sexuality.


After a moment, Hardy asked, "Are you asking me about my sexuality?"


Sure, the man replied, to which Hardy said in absolutely perfect tone: WHY?


Watch the full exchange here and, as if it matters, take note: Hardy is expecting a child with wife Charlotte Riley. She"s a woman.


Tom hardy perfectly shoots down question about his sexuality